Men want you to feel good and make you happy. They love a woman who feels good and enjoys being a woman.
What I see with most of my clients is that they are over-functioning and are burned out by everything they do and are responsible for.
Being a woman, feeling relaxed and cared for, often has taken a backseat.
This article will help you go back to feeling good as a woman by showing you three ways to do so.
1.) Self-care
If you picture a cup and I asked you how full it feels, how well-rested and nourished you feel, it would most likely be less than half full.
Unfortunately, that is a standard answer given by most of the hard, strong women I consult. My clients wear many hats, and we have been programmed to glorify self-sacrifice. Stop!
Taking care of yourself, saying no, and prioritising your well-being does not make you a bad or selfish person. It makes you a well-rested, attractive woman.
2.) Support
I am not shying away from asking questions, learning new things to update my systems, and accepting qualified expert support that I pay for.
This makes me feel supported like a Queen. Modern Queen Mantra:
“I am investing in myself – to be my best self!”
Many of the strong and successful women I draw in have, at some point in their lives, taken on a lot of responsibility and solely relied on themselves.
The quickest, easiest visual tool to leap out of this almost trauma-like state of believing you have to do it all, and on your own, is by saying and repeating the Mantra:
“I let myself be supported like a Queen.”
The ability to allow and receive support is a woman’s strength. Read that again—it sounds counterintuitive, I know.
Leading to the 3rd, oftentimes most challenging piece of advice for modern women:
3.) Feminine Energy
The key to feeling good as a woman is embracing both masculine and feminine traits.
Mastering their balance and training your access to them will allow you to, as I like to say, use the right tool in the right place.
Approaching your romantic relationship in the way you are taught to succeed in life or business. Is the best example of using the wrong tool in the wrong place.
You probably already have a highly cultivated masculine side, which is a very good thing.
Making a conscious effort to reconnect with and actively cultivate your feminine side will make you feel more whole and fulfilled in the long term.
To you feeling good as you should,
Anina
Further reading you may find helpful:
What you are really saying when you state: I do not need (anyone) a man, I can do it all by myself.