„If you are a woman, looking to create the lovelife of your dreams, you have come to the right place.“

Anina Green

I am a Certified Dating and Relationship Coach, with a degree in Clinical Psychology and Counselling. I provide a highly personalised and private consulting service for women.

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Upshot-Dating™

With a rock solid consulting system and clear steps, I lead women from single to engaged, from “it is complicated” to clarity and commitment. And I help bring back the romance and love, even after years into a relationship or marriage.

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Individual consultations, self study of the articles, ebooks and programs are geared towards the following results:

Master Online Dating and get real-life dates.
Have men treat you well and find the best man for you.
Get engaged, married and start a family.

Go from “it’s complicated” to commitment and clarity.
Reconnect your relationship or marriage.
Consciously create a happy home full of love, joy and stability.

Understand masculine and feminine energy, and when using which is in your best interest.
A stable strong mindset, calm confidence and deep self-worth.
Boundaries and excellent communication skills.

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Always make yourself the Queen of Your Life.

Do not postpone making your love life and happiness the priority. Nor tie it to conditions such as; once I have lost weight, worked on my childhood issues, moved country, got the promotion, the degree, etc.
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Femininity & Feminine Energy

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Upshot Dating™

Aug 13, 2025 | Upshot Dating™

„If you are a woman, looking to create the lovelife of your dreams, you have come to the right place.“

Upshot-Dating™

Individual consultations, self study of the articles, ebooks and programs are geared towards the following results:

Choose your investment level:

Always make yourself the Queen of Your Life.

Email list

Anina’s Blog

Read here what my private consultation clients are saying.

What is the Bronze Level Email list?

What is the Bronze Level Email list?

What is the Bronze Level Email list?

Should I Tell Him I Want Marriage Early in Dating?

When I Began to Trust Myself and Decided to Love Myself, My Whole Life Changed.

When is the Right Time to Find Love?

How Do You Know that He is Your Soulmate?

Why Saying “No.” Makes You More Attractive to Him.

Why Strong, Smart and Successful Women Struggle in Love.

Are These 4 Limiting Beliefs About Love Getting in the Way of Having the Relationship You Want?

The #1 MISTAKE Most Women Make in Dating.

Do you have Boundaries, Walls or Electrical Fences with Men?

How She Almost Gave Back the Ring. Coralie’s Story

He is Not Sure About Me! Here is the Solution.

The 3 Steps to Take When He Makes You Feel Jealous.

How to Get Over a Breakup in 3 Steps.

3 Feminine Habits that Will Change Your Life.

I Feel Attracted to Other Men. Nina’s Question.

I think about him too much. What should I do? Client Question.

Can You Find Love After a Devastating Heartbreak?

5 Ways to Give. Only 3 of Them Are Good for You.

The 4 Most Common Misconceptions about Men that Keep Love Away.

How to Feel More Loved and Connected When He Seems Distant ~ 3 Steps

Are You a Workaholic? And What is the Connection to Your Love Life?

Is he love bombing you? A checklist: 9 signs.

5 things that can get in the way of your success at love.

How to Quickly Boost Your Confidence and Desirability as a Woman. A Fun Visual Tool.

He is still close with his Ex, and I do not like it.

Can Men and Women be Friends?

Should I date a divorced man?

Client Interview – Malia got married and started a family at 39.

Do You Have Boundaries in Dating Like a Queen? Find out here: 8 Examples.

3 ways to instantly be more feminine & attractive and meet more men.

Why do I like and attract unavailable men?

I Don’t Feel Good Enough—7 Steps to Change It.

How to detect self-sabotage at each step of the dating process, from single to engaged to married. Client Examples

Client Interview: from Single to Engaged in 8 months.

The question is not“if” ~ it is “HOW”?!

What working as a model has taught me about being beautiful.

I am in love with a separated man, what now? Jenny’s Question

He cheated on his Ex. Can I trust him?

What if he doesn’t like my pets?

How to Get Out Of the Friend Zone and Make Him See Your Worth

How to Succeed in Dating: Avoid These 4 Mistakes.

How to Ensure You Will NEVER Find the Right Man.

The 5 Social Norms I Advise You to Break in Early Dating

5 signs you are a woman who practices Upshot-Dating™

I do not like his female friends. (Client Scenarios).

5 areas with the most common limiting beliefs about men and love – a self-assessment.

Client Letter, Natalia’s story.

Avoid making these two mistakes when you are Upshot-Dating™.

My client, Marcheline, answered 21 quick questions.

Does your dating life suffer from these 3 limiting beliefs?

I want my Ex back!

What is the Girlfriend Trap? 3 Signs you are in it. And 4 Steps to get out of it.

When dating more than one man at a time is the right thing to do, and when it isn’t. Concrete Examples.

What you need to know about your attachment style when dating to find the right man.

What if he does not believe in marriage?

2 Fun Feminine Energy Tools for Dating.

Are You in Maid in Waiting Mode?

9 Signs to Stop Seeing a Man.

How to respond to inappropriate texts in early dating? Masha’s question.

How do you deal with a passive aggressive man? The Modern Queen’s Response.

What you are really saying when you state: I do not need (anyone) a man, I can do it all by myself.

5 very different women and their reviews of Upshot-Dating™

6 Steps to be the Best Version of Yourself.

I can not handle his past. 3 Steps to deal with retroactive jealousy.

Are You a Queen of Ice?

The 3 worst lies women tell themselves.

I am not sure I want to get married.

When being a girlfriend makes sense — and when it doesn’t.

Why Upshot-Dating™ is Not Cheating.