About Anina

If there was one thing I would like you to take away from visiting this page, it would be, to always make yourself the Queen of Your Life.

As a Physicist, and psychologist, together with my life experience and the gift of a highly trained intuition, my consulting system makes the perfect combination of: structure, systems, process analysis, goal setting;  hence Upshot-Dating®, individually tailored tools and very client centred approach.

I was brought up and educated between Europe, UK, Switzerland and the Middle East. I modelled, ran marathons, lived in Asia, South America, Eastern Europe, travelled, often solo, to almost every country in the world, worked different jobs, lived very different lifestyles, and met people from all walks of life, before I went back to University, to study Physics for a PhD.

How I met & married my husband within 9 months, using Upshot-Dating®.

We met through Online Dating in 2016, when I lived in Cambodia. Our first date took place in Singapore. Followed by a proposal, after three months in the Middle East, and a wedding at Sunrise, on a boat from France to Ireland.

Even though we come from different cultures, speak different languages, and our relationship has been long-distance for a few months too, it all worked out. My husband is very supportive of my consulting business, and very proud of me. He always supports me in anything I do and has never felt intimidated or challenged by my Intelligence and achievements. I have the happy home and life I always wanted.

I knew I wanted to work as a consultant when I was 16, went to boarding school near London and met my first mentor Jasminder Kaur. She had the life I wanted; a loving husband, a flourishing business, worked from home with a daughter she could be present bringing up. Dating and romantic relationships had always been what I took the most interest in. After I got married and settled down in Ireland, I knew the time was right to get certified and open my own dream business.

My Consulting Service is a plethora of knowledge, experience, tangible skills and implementation exercises on dating and romantic relationships, that I wish I had or someone had told me, back then when I needed this guidance.

„I consciously created the life of my dreams, by taking responsibility for myself and stubbornly holding on to my dreams.“

And it all started with the decision to do so; I remember the specific moment, in Cambodia, when I sat on my porch and looked at the stars. I had just come back from a wedding. I had a great life but there were moments when I felt lonely, and tired of travelling the world all by myself. With no one to come home to and share my day with. I wanted a husband who was loyal to me and there for me. I looked up at the night sky and decided that I was ready and that he must be somewhere out there. For him to be able to find me, I made the promise to myself that I would do my part and remove all the blocks I had built up around me and that had, so far, kept love away. (This is Module 1 of “Find the Right Man for You” in a nutshell.)

When I logged on to my online dating profile the next day, my now husband had written me a message. He had sent it around the same time as I sat on my porch, I immediately had a feeling that he could be the one. I am not(!) saying that this will be the exact same for you. Each story is different, and that is what I enjoy about getting to know my clients. And to us as scientists, this is a happy coincidence at best.

But what I can tell you, based on the results I get for my clients and based on what I witness every day, when I consult women in private sessions; the moment you as the woman make that internal shift, and make up your mind, results can’t help but show. -> It starts with you as the woman, you hold the key, believe me!

Final words.

Do not postpone making your love life and happiness the priority. Nor tie it to conditions such as; once I have lost weight, worked on my childhood issues, moved country, got the promotion, the degree,….

Your time, childbearing years, heart, body and energy as a woman are precious! You will never be able to get back the years you spent in trial and error; trying to figure out on your own, how to have true love and find the right man. It makes more sense to invest money in a successful consulting system and expert support. This money can be made back, the time lost is gone forever. Allowing yourself to break free from your limiting beliefs, be ‘selfish’ (that is how it will feel), and claim your dreams, is the best next step for you.

All my Love, Anina