Read here what my private consultation clients are saying.
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I strongly recommend Anina to any woman who wants more than just hard-earned success in her career.
Diana, Self-made Millionaire, Vienna Austria
Anina helped me immensely in my binational marriage. She immediately understood how, and why exactly my husband and I were clashing. I never felt so comfortable and understood. Anina’s judgement- free and warm way of communicating, made it easy for me to open up.
Through consultations, I was able to resolve all the issues my husband and I were struggling with for years. I am still amazed that this was possible solely through consultations with Anina and from my side alone!
Especially, if you have a multicultural background, and / or a binational marriage, Anina is the absolutely right person for you.
Beatrice, Economist / CEO, Belgium
All my life has been dedicated to building my company, and at 56, I believed myself too old for love. That was until I met Anina.
I have found a wonderful partner who spoils and treats me like a queen. I have allowed myself to receive and enjoy, just like Anina taught me.
It never felt this good to be a woman. Anina’s class and expertise make her an excellent consultant.
Clarissa, businesswoman, U.S.
Finding love does not depend on your age, religion or ethnicity.
This work works for any woman who does the work.
My most significant barrier was believing my age and ethnicity would be a problem.
I met my partner online, and I am his world.
Sophia, CEO, Singapore
I get compliments from men, even when wearing jeans, a T-shirt, and no makeup. It is the glow from within. Yesterday, my date told me how attractive he finds it that I do not reach out to him or pursue him like most women do.
I am a single mommy who got back into dating with Anina’s support, and she has completely changed my world. After my divorce, I felt so broken and never thought I would be as happy as I am now. I love doing this for myself; it is like wellness for the soul.
Coleen, physical therapist, Ireland
Edit: The client is now engaged.
I just returned from a day of wedding dress shopping and a champagne breakfast with my girlfriends. I must write to you and thank you because this is all thanks to you. I hope you will be able to attend my wedding in the Spring. Put this on your website. Women need to hear about you and the fantastic work that you do. I am forever grateful to you.
Nadjesjda, mathematician and financial consultant, Lichtenstein
I hope every woman looking for love finds Anina and decides to work with her. I invested in working with Anina for about a year; we met in person and on video calls. She completely changed my life, and I am getting married this month.
Saffron, CEO, Lichtenstein
Before I met Anina, I was in a relationship that wasn’t going anywhere.
He would forget my birthday, discuss other women, and leave me feeling like there was something wrong with me. I spent hundreds if not thousands of hours trying to think my way through it all. My boundaries and self-worth were non-existent, despite recently graduating from a top 5 US college as a budding scientist. I knew I needed help and that my therapist wasn’t cutting it.
I interviewed several coaches and found Anina to be a perfect fit. She gave me concrete homework so I could develop the skills to handle relationship situations from within. There were no shame games and no pity parties of never-ending feelings. I feel like myself before all those bad habits piled up; all of my relationships have changed for the better and I don’t agonise over every little move.
I remember reading testimonials like this just a year ago thinking “there is no way this transformation can happen for me” with my stubborn, nerdy, tomboy personality. But it did!
Bella, Medical Student, U.S.
I found the love of my life through Upshot-Dating™.
Thank you, Anina, for everything you do!
Betty, Medical Dr, U.S.
It was the luck of the Irish that I found this woman from Dublin who helped me find true love.
Upshot-Dating™ is the way to go, ladies. Trust me!
I went from constantly heartbroken to happy in love, and he proposed on St. Patrick’s Day!
Clodagh, advertising manager, New York, U.S
Our first consultation already helped me switch something, and every consultation from then on was part of creating a totally different experience with men and dating.
Two years later, I am married and expecting my first baby.
Now that I am pregnant, my man never lets me carry any bags and drives out late at night to buy me whatever fruits or food I am craving.
I want every woman to know that Anina changes your life and helps you make your dreams come true!
Ayala, business consultant, Italy
I initially doubted all this, but everything Anina says makes sense. She is the real deal! The private consultation was the best investment I have ever made in myself and in building my life.
Anina found the right way and words to enter my, at times, relatively rigid, scientific way of thinking and brain. She encouraged me to open my heart more and get out of my head and into my body.
She spontaneously created a custom-made tool for me in a session. I am a marine biologist, and water lilies are my favourite plants.
Anina told me to visualise a water lily firmly rooted in the ground, which keeps me safe and grounded.
As a next step, she asked me to open up my heart, just like the petals of my favourite lily. I regularly practise this tool, which is ongoing whenever I feel I need it.
Anina also helped me redefine what it means to be a modern woman. I now know I can design my life in a way that is right for me.
After about a year of working with Anina, I got engaged to the love of my life, who is also my best friend.
I went from being rational, cynical, and overthinking to finding love and believing in it.
The man I got engaged to was a fellow researcher under my nose the entire time. He always liked me and called me his goddess.
I only recognised this diamond in the rough after I had become a new woman through Anina’s coaching.
We will get married in Hawaii and want to raise our children here. It is my dream life, lived in bliss, and I owe it all to Anina.
Melissa, biologist and researcher, Hawaii
I was convinced men are scared of smart women, and my aptitude was the reason I was single.
Working with Anina, I understood the real factors that make a man fall in love.
As a direct result of this, I got engaged last week.
Behati, mathematician, Cape Town, South Africa
We were together for five years, and I still felt I needed to work hard and prove that I was wife material.
My frustration grew, and my biological clock kept ticking. I always wanted a wedding and children.
The more I invested in the relationship and the more I tried to make things happen, the more lazy and entitled he became.
I had a successful career and was good-looking, but in the love department, I felt completely lost.
Meeting Anina has changed my life.
I came to our sessions, trying to make this man propose to me.
But through working with Anina, I realised I did not want him anymore.
I left and set out to Upshot-Date™, which was very empowering.
In one year, I got engaged and had the big wedding I always wanted.
My beloved husband is more than I ever thought possible in a partner.
I never needed to prove to him that I was good enough to be a wife.
He makes me feel like the most precious woman who has ever walked this planet. And he couldn’t wait to put a ring on my finger.
I’m glad I didn’t stay with my ex and settle for less.
I am forever grateful to Anina!
Shirin, engineer, Iran and Germany
I was in an abusive marriage for almost 15 years. When I finally broke out, I swore to myself to never get trapped this way again.
I started therapy, and while this helped in some aspects, I never got to the point where I felt safe to give love another chance.
Curious, I asked a coworker how she met and married her amazing husband. He seemed somehow like a unicorn to me. He was so romantic, protective, and supportive of her career in our highly male-dominated field.
She gave Anina’s contact details. In the first call with Anina, I could see why this woman is making such a difference in her clients’ lives.
Anina helped me heal my heart and make peace with my past. I rebuilt my confidence, trust myself and my boundaries, and see my value.
Suddenly, I did not only feel okay about dating but excited!
This change happened within two months! Because of Anina, for the first time in my life, I experienced what it is like to be” this woman” who has it easy with men.
I was treated well on dates, received flowers, and the men were considerate and respectful. One of these amazing men I dated is now my husband.
Yes, I got married again, and it feels safe and happy.
Annelize, aerospace technician, Canada
I paid for coaching and got back a ring, a crazy-about-me husband, and my baby on the way.
Shoshana, manager, Israel
We are planning our Christmas wedding, which is my dream. I am cherished and loved. This man tells me daily that I am the love of his life.
Before I met Anina, I thought no man would want a single mother over 40. Anina was excellent and managed to change my mind in an extremely gentle, compassionate way.
After working with Anina, I am a completely different woman. I never felt this vibrant, confident, and connected to myself. Investing in consultations with her was the best thing I ever did for myself.
Amanda, business analyst, Ireland
Hello Anina,
I can see daily how your energy and presence as my consultant make such a big difference in my life. My husband is so attentive to me that I don’t have to say a word or even ask for certain things anymore.
Today, we had a heavy snowfall here in Switzerland. Even though it was his day off, he got up early to clear my car from the snow.
He ensured I did not have to deal with the cold weather, was comfortable, and got to my appointment on time. While he scraped the window, I gently threw a snowball at him. I realised I was just standing around, being happy, and we were having fun.
Before I met you, I had no idea how to inspire him to treat me this way or how to receive without guilt or the instant need to give something back right away.
It still takes a bit of reminding myself here and there, but I prefer resting in my feminine and receiving.
Everything is much better; we are happier, and our relationship is lighter and connected.
Cecile, tax consultant, Switzerland
Work was fine. I had moved to a new country for a great career opportunity. I loved my hikes and girl time with a group of great friends I made.
I got rabbits as pets and bought my first apartment. I should have been so happy, which I was for a while, till the novelty of a new country began to wear off. That was when I could not continue to ignore that my love life was not picking up.
I met Anina at a yoga class at the local gym, and we talked. I immediately liked her, and we became friends.
I wanted a husband just like hers. She said, “I can’t clone him for you, but I can help you find your version of him.”
We laughed, but she kept her word by turning me into a man magnet.
I had no idea how much I had been in my masculine energy all my life.
I once carried home a pack of turf to expand a corner of my apartment for my bunnies. A man offered me help carrying it. When I declined, I was rude, finding him wanting to help and insulting me.
Looking back, I can only laugh and shake my head about the woman I was and how I related to men.
I was raised by a single mother who had to do it all. It took some time and serious accountability to overcome my early childhood programming.
By now, I have learned how to accept support from men.
I go by the sentence Anina told me in our first session:
Just because I can do it all does not mean I have to.”
As a result, I have never felt so desired and cherished.
My now husband is the best man I’ve ever known, and Upshot-Dating™ is how I found him.
Gabby, sales manager, Dublin, Ireland
Anina quickly identified my love block.
I always made sure to choose unavailable men. My speciality was vacation flirts, or setting up my online dating profile in a different city, which only got me long-distance relationships.
It took all my courage to deal with and face my intimacy fears. But Anina was there for me each step of the way.
I am in a relationship with a man based in the same city.
He is present in my real life, and I like it: no more hiding and no more long-distance love.
He makes breakfast in bed for me and gets me my favourite Starbucks coffee on his morning runs.
He also brought up marriage after a few dates, and thanks to Anina, I did not panic.
We will meet my family and his for the holiday. I have an inkling that he is going to propose.
Elina, clinical engineer, Russia and the U.S.
Edit: The client is now engaged
After about twenty dates, when my cat had an accident, he took the day off to drive me to the veterinarian clinic. He waited outside with me and held my hand. It was a complex surgery, during which I was terrified to lose my cat.
When my cat came out of surgery, he insisted on paying for everything. This is a man who earns far less money than I do. I have never felt so supported and cared for.
His loyalty and availability, whether in emergencies or simple day-to-day matters, made him stand out. I knew he was the one because this was one of the main things I was looking for in my Mr. Right.
Now that we live together, he continues to be thoughtful in our daily lives. He calls on the way home from work and asks if we need anything from the supermarket. He regularly brings me flowers just because. I love him so dearly; it brings me to tears.
Thank you, Anina, from the bottom of my heart.
Coralie, investment banker, Lichtenstein
The love of my life and the most handsome man proposed to me last night.
He is my best friend and is always there for me.
I made all this happen through Upshot Dating™.
Aviva, data scientist, Israel
I am 24, and I don’t want to get married yet. I am learning from Anina how to find a boyfriend with whom I can have a future.
Anina also helps me be confident in myself. I can see how I am way ahead of my peers. I know how to embody my feminine energy, use masculine energy in my favour, and balance the two well.
Candy, maths student, Liechtenstein
Edit: The client is now engaged
From the first moment, Anina’s passion and skills shine through. She meets you exactly where you are and creates customised tools for you within seconds while consulting.
Seeing her in action is amazing. I have seen many people in her field, but never someone as skilled and who gets phenomenal results as fast.
And by the way, I am now happily married, thanks to her.
Amely, midwife, U.S.
I was mothering men, and it pushed them away. I also had a massive fear of being abandoned by a man. These were the two major blocks that kept love and men away.
Slowly, step by step, with her skills and tools, Anina helped me resolve both.
I found my husband. He makes me happy, and I know that he wants me and me only.
Of course, I do not mother him. It is he who keeps working hard for me.
Elise, HR manager, France
We got engaged, and he surprised me by getting down on one knee, in front of everyone and telling me I was the love of his life.
Dina, physicist, Germany
He did it! He proposed! I am over the moon!
Thank you a thousand times Anina!
Eleanor, pharmacist, Norway
I received a lot of unwanted attention from men. None of the men I met were serious about me. I wanted to find love and my soulmate. I felt sad and ate tons of chocolates.
Anina helped me resolve my issues. The more inner work I did, the fewer sweets I ate. I lost a significant amount of weight and took dance classes.
I got married two years later, and I am very spoiled by my husband.
Susanna, nurse, Canada
We met on Facebook and got engaged relatively quickly.
Anina helped me with my communication style, and we worked through my triggers.
Our relationship is perfect because of the skills I have learned.
An essential thing I learned from Anina is that just because I can doesn’t mean I have to do it all by myself, especially not if it means I get burnt out and push away love and men.
Svetlana, scientist, Alaska
All my patients notice my beautiful big ring; I love how it shines. Upshot-Dating™ made it possible.
Mila, dentist, U.S.
I am a plastic surgeon, my husband and I have been married for seven
years and have two daughters.
We were fine, but between all the responsibilities —our work schedules, the children, and daily life —I felt something was missing.
I discovered Anina through one of my patients. I noticed how she was suddenly glowing from the inside out, and shortly after, she got engaged.
After speaking with Anina in an initial call, I proceeded directly to the gold level, which included private consultations.
Anina helped me acknowledge my desire for more romance and passion and subsequently showed me how to make this happen in my marriage. I will continue to work with Anina, and I am so glad I found her.
Gabriela, plastic surgeon, Switzerland
My partner of 9 years and I broke up because I wanted to get married and start a family.
I would have been heartbroken and almost slipped into a deep depression if not for Anina.
My new partner proposed to me after five months, and he wants the same things I do.
We moved into a new house with a garden and adopted a dog and two cats from a nearby shelter.
Yesterday, I received a positive pregnancy test result. I could not be happier with my life.
Thank you, dear Anina.
Jenny, data analyst, Lichtenstein
Since last weekend I am fiancée.
It was a spectacular proposal, with flowers, champagne, a diamond and just super romantic.
Irit, fashion designer, France
After my boyfriend left me, I was heartbroken, and as we say in German, “I did not understand the world anymore.” I was the complete package: hardworking, educated, intelligent, successful, good-looking, kind-hearted, caring, and physically superfit.
Yet, he left because he didn’t “feel it” for me. I had no idea what was missing. Nor what more I should have done to make him or the other men in my past see my value and worth. I had enough, turned bitter, and did not believe in love anymore. I would still be there if not for Anina’s work.
It was not me; it was a lack of skills and misinformation about men. I had no idea that I was in masculine energy most of the time, which ruined my relationships. I didn’t realise how my mindset around receiving and my resistance to prioritising myself were getting in the way of love.
Changing how I treat myself did not make me evil or selfish—it turned me into a woman worth fighting for.
Implementing all this was a challenge for me. I was brought up very differently. I only knew how to work hard and never complain.
Even though I was accomplished and had a good job, deep down inside, I still felt that I was not good enough and that something was missing.
From Anina, I learned how to connect deeply to myself and what real self-love means.
Today, as a side effect of all that. I am happily married to a man who tells me daily how lucky he feels to have found me.
Through his actions, he shows me how much I mean to him. It is remarkable how working on myself and taking responsibility for myself has created this extraordinary situation.
I thank my lucky stars for finding Anina.
Daniela, programmer, Liechtenstein and Germany
I love math, physics, and children. Early on, I knew that I wanted to become a teacher, get married, and have children of my own, but I never found the man to share this with.
All my relationships seemed to follow the same pattern: they ended because I wanted to get married and start a family, and the men did not.
Thanks to working with Anina, I found and married my man within seven months. He wants a family, says I am his dream partner, and can not wait to spend the rest of his life with me.
Michelle, maths and physics teacher, Belgium
Anina! He proposed!
I can not wait to tell you the details in our session! I am sending you a huge hug, and I can never thank you enough! You have changed my entire life and that of my little girl. He loves her as if he had always been her Dad. I’m tearing up as I write this, and I’m so grateful.
Please use this email as a testimonial; you deserve all the praise and appreciation in the world.
You are a gift from above! Thank you, thank you, thank you! See you soon! I love you!
Joon, civil engineer, Iran and Europe
Anina told me to go on vacation and stop making excuses to get in touch with him. I knew he still loved me, but he did not show signs of committing to a future and having a family.
I trusted Anina, but following her advice was not easy. I was terrified of losing him.
But Anina built my confidence. I was ready to let him go, choose myself, and be married over waiting around for him.
If he did not want the same thing, he needed to make space for a man who did.
This new confidence, attitude and clarity brought him back and made him realise that he needed to propose if he wanted to keep me.
Maria, data analyst, Lebanon and Norway
I was good-looking but very guarded. I never smiled. I had all my walls up, and the men I attracted were far from good. They were superficial and couldn’t care less about me as a person.
I focused on work and my friends. I bought nice things and travelled to luxury resorts to treat myself. I was making good money and taking care of myself, but I felt so, so alone after work.
When I found Anina, I immediately felt she understood where I came from.
Thanks to taking that step and working with Anina, I am married, and we are ready to have children.
We are looking to buy a new home for our little family. It is wonderful to have someone to share my life with and come home to.
Lorelei, manager, Norway
I found Anina, as a divorced mother of three, who had not been on a date since she was 17. Everything was different, especially in the online space.
Anina was like a fairy godmother who took me by the hand. I have no idea what I would have done without her.
Shortly after becoming her client, I met my second husband online. We have become a happy family, and another baby is on the way.
Thank you, Anina, for everything you taught me! This time around, in my second marriage, I will do things differently based on what I have learned from you.
Klara, hotel manager, South Africa
He proposed after dinner last night at the beach.
Thank you, Anina. We met and got engaged within four months. Upshot Dating™ works wonders!
Karmen, cardiologist, Argentina
I had traditional matchmaking and was being introduced to potential matches within our community for about 1 year.
Having Anina by my side was priceless. Anina gave me dating advice and helped me choose the right man.
My whole family and I thank her from the bottom of our hearts. We love Anina so much.
My wedding was three years ago, and the honeymoon seems never to end. The longer we are together, the stronger our love grows. And whenever I need advice, I can turn to Anina.
Jumana, CEO, Lichtenstein and Lebanon
I found my Beshert (Soulmate) and had my dream wedding.
Since my teenage years, I have wanted to find a husband and start a family. I love children and work as a paediatrician in my practice.
I was “unlucky in love” and could not understand what was “wrong” with me.
I was always at the top of the class throughout school and university. I cared for my looks, went to Synagogue, and prayed to find a good husband. I even consulted a traditional matchmaker in our community.
All without results. I was almost resigned to my “bad luck” and thought I would stay single and be that old spinster everyone pities.
Everything changed the day I met Anina!
In my faith, they say, people like Anina who reunite soulmates on earth are rewarded in the afterlife for their efforts.
I will be forever grateful to you, Anina. You have helped me find the love of my life when I had almost lost hope.
We are starting a family, and I know he is everything and more than I ever hoped and prayed for.
Yelena, paediatrician, Frankfurt, Germany
Anina is outstanding in her approach to self-development and consistently delivers results.
Additionally, her warmth and kindness are truly remarkable.
Talking to and confiding in her in person was a pleasure.
Through her System, Upshot-Dating™, I met the love of my life, and we have been married for one year already.
Marlene, quantum physicist, Netherlands
Out of the blue, he broke up with me, and the well-meaning advice of my girlfriends just made it all worse.
Anina’s advice was counterintuitive and quite a challenge to follow. But I made it and found the love of my dreams and my soulmate.
Lindi, businesswomen, Hong Kong and Australia
Hello Anina,
I am sitting in bed with a warming bottle, eating vegetable soup, and sipping freshly pressed juice—all made by my husband. “For his Queen,” he says.
I have to write to you and share what happened.
Let me say I had pregnancy pains, and my hormones were running amok. I ended up crying and not being able to sleep for days, and all the other perks of pregnancy combined took their toll.
In the past, before meeting you and during my first pregnancy, this would have led to a fight. I still remember how frustrated these situations would leave us.
But not anymore, because of all the things you taught me. I reminded myself that men are not mind readers, that they mean well, but that they need me to express what I need and, most of all, to value myself enough to feel worthy of asking and receiving.
Thank you, Anina. Your work changes lives, families, and the world.
Please share this email on your platforms to showcase the value of your work to other women. I am sure there is a woman out there who needs to read this.
I love you,
Sheryl
Sheryl, AI research scientist, Estonia
The divorce papers were on the table, a lot of money had been spent on other coaches, couple therapy was exhausted, and I had no idea what else I could do.
My heart was broken into pieces. We had been together since high school, and I could not believe I would be a single mother of two boys.
Anina encouraged me to give it one last try. I felt something special about Anina and her consulting system, so I began private consultations.
In six months of working privately, I went from almost losing my family to a life in which we are happier than ever.
I never thought being this cherished and loved after 16 years of marriage and two babies was possible.
Yesterday, on Mother’s Day, he and our two sons surprised me with flowers and breakfast in bed.
Thank you for saving my family and showing me how to have a fulfilled romantic relationship with my parents.
Natasha, IT specialist, Germany
As a pilot flying passenger planes, I was proud to be a strong, modern woman and convinced men could not handle that. I refused to be silly and weak and play down all my accomplishments for the sake of being in a relationship and making it work.
This attitude and lifestyle were fine for me in my teens and 20s. Throughout my life, I have been dedicated to my career. I saw the world and took great pride in being a pilot.
When my brother married and his wife had their first baby, something in me changed. I felt left out. I thought having a family was impossible because I was different—too strong, bright, and intelligent.
One night, when I got back to my room at the airport hotel, I felt so alone and down that I began to cry. The next day, I researched dozens of coaches and spoke with some, but none of them convinced me. My colleague told me about Anina and how she saved her marriage.
Today, at 41 years old, I am pregnant with an engagement ring. Our legal wedding will take place next week in a small, intimate ceremony.
My dream beach wedding is planned for next summer. I want to celebrate after I have given birth and fit back into the dress I chose.
In Summary, I can have it all – be a female pilot and the Queen of his Heart!
Sarah, pilot, Frankfurt, Germany
I knew early on that I wanted to get married and have children. My parents were on board. In my last year of university, I started coaching with Anina to find the right man.
Anina helped me not only find my husband but also find myself.
I am a first-generation immigrant. I wanted to marry within my religion, uphold my traditions, be a modern, emancipated woman, and make my parents proud. Of course, I was overwhelmed, but only before I had Anina by my side.
I am no longer overwhelmed but very secure and happy in my identity and value as a wife, daughter, and educated modern woman. I am thrilled to have found my husband, and I look forward to the life and family we will build together.
Jasmeek, Student, Germany and Punja
We have two children and have been together for 7 years, but we were not married. I was working full-time in a job that did not fulfil me. Did the majority of the housework and childcare, and carried all the mental load. Sometimes, it felt like he was my third child.
He used to say marriage is outdated and not necessary. We do not need a piece of paper to prove that we love each other. And I talked myself into agreeing because I am a modern woman.
Yet, I was constantly stressed, exhausted and unhappy. I became a snappy, impatient mother to my children, which broke my heart. Having these two children was my dream, and this was not the mother I had envisioned being.
I learned about Anina from a friend who got engaged within 4 months of working with her. Mainly for the sake of my children and because I had become so miserable, I took that leap of faith and got in touch with Anina.
Already in our first conversation, something deep happened. It felt like the floodgates opened. I broke down and cried; from then on, there was no way back.
Even though our call was virtual and I had never met Anina, I felt like she held and saw me. She made it possible for me to acknowledge my true feelings.
I was frustrated, angry, unhappy, and burned out!
I wanted a proper proposal and a wedding.
I also did not want to continue to miss out on being with my children for a job I hated.
And I was tired of mothering a man who did not see the need to propose, even after I gave birth to his children.
Thanks to Anina, I was ready to stand up for that.
Today, we are married; I am a stay-at-home mother and a long-distance student of early child care and education, my dream profession.
My husband has stepped up big time.
He keeps track of the shopping we need to do, has created a family calendar to coordinate all our appointments, and offers to do dishes after dinner, even when he has had a long day at work.
The romance is back, too. He never forgets to bring me flowers and my favourite chocolate, get a babysitter, and take me on dates.
He recently told one of our friends that getting married was the best thing he has ever done, apart from becoming a father.
I think paying Anina to sort of restyle my life was the best thing, second to having my children, that I have ever done.
I am so happy to see my children grow up in a stable, loving home with a happy mother and father.
Agnes, student and stay-at-home mother, Netherlands
He took me to his family for Chanukah, hid a ring in my dessert, and asked me to marry him:
“Will you be my Chanukah Miracle?”
Of course, I said yes, and I have not stopped smiling since.
I am a veterinarian, and he brought his dog to my clinic. We met again in a nearby park while walking our dogs. It all happened from there. We dated and fell in love.
We are an interfaith couple, so he had to convince his parents that I was the right person for him. Anina’s support and advice were golden during that time. His family welcomed and liked me, and all is well.
Melania, veterinarian, Franc
I have eight children, three of whom are from a previous relationship. My five sisters all have several children as well. My mother and older sister are both married for the second time, as was my grandmother. My little sister was going through a divorce, and the other was going through a trial separation. It runs in the family to be a good mother, but not so good at choosing men and maintaining happy relationships. I wanted to understand why and prevent my second divorce from happening.
What I instantly liked about Anina was how she made me feel respected. She has an absolute gift for seeing you for who you are and bringing out the best version of yourself.
She helped me understand that my gift of being a very good mother is something to be proud of, but it requires a different skill set than being the girl he never falls out of love with.
Anina’s advice has completely changed my life, and I can safely say I’ve broken the lineage and modelled a new way for my daughters, younger sisters, and nieces. I am forever grateful to you Anina.
Marilyn, midwife and doula, Luxembourg
Anina is amazing. I finally understood how to create attraction and polarity, have a man court me, and have him step up for me.
Roisin, therapist, Dublin, Ireland
Edit: The client is now engaged.
I was 35 when I started working with several love coaches. I was panicking about getting married. Nothing worked, and even after investing thousands, I still could not see any results. My family pressured me, and my younger cousins were all married before me.
I took one last leap of faith by hiring Anina. It was the best thing I could have done. Already, in our first session, she got straight to the point. Even though the topics were so personal, she made me feel comfortable.
While other coaches were waddling around and scratching the surface, Anina cracked my case within two sessions, speeding up my process immensely.
Anina’s skilful 1:1 support and Upshot Dating™ got me engaged in 11 months!
Thank you Anina. I will be forever grateful for your help.
Solmaz, chemist, England
I found out that my ex-husband had cheated on me the entire time of our marriage with several different women. I was crushed, and my self-esteem was way below zero.
I got remarried, and I trust my new husband. He loves me more than anything and shows it to me every day. I could not have done this without Anina’s coaching.
Aleid, dermatologist, Netherland
Instead of looking at my non-existent love life, taking action and doing something about this shlamassel. I turned to travel and work, built a side business, and dedicated most of my energy to animal rescue. I left love up to luck, chance, or thought that someday I would address this part of my life.
After almost a decade, I realised that nothing would change unless I changed my approach to love.
I immediately felt connected to Anina. I am glad to say that because of hiring her, I found my beshert, my soulmate, and could not be happier.
I still run my animal sanctuary, and it is so much easier with his support. I decided to cut back at work so I could enjoy the fruits of my labour more.
We bought a house in the countryside, and my favourite part of the day is when we sit on the porch and watch the sunset. We have deep conversations, and this relationship truly is a dream come true.
Revi, clinical scientist, Canada
Using Anina’s dating advice, Upshot Dating™ has helped me find the perfect man. Anina’s approach to dating is revolutionary and different from anything I know.
My partner supports my career, is handsome, is very romantic, and makes me feel safe.
We go on weekend getaways and laugh a lot, and I never felt so energised by a relationship.
All without any effort from my side, simply through being feminine.
Thank you, Anina, for changing my life!
Paula, lawyer, U.K.
Edit: The client is now engaged.
Our relationship was not going anywhere, and I tried everything to make it work. I got more and more angry at him, but ultimately, I was angry at myself for being stuck with a man who did not want to propose.
One night, when desperately googling for answers, I found Anina and her dating system. I contacted her right away. I could feel she had the answers from talking to her and reading her content online. We had our initial call within a week, and I signed the consultation contract.
Anina and I worked on undoing the damage and dropping what does not work in a romantic relationship. She explained that my being in my masculine energy was the root cause for his unwillingness to move things forward.
At the same time, she encouraged me to lean in at work and apply my hardworking attitude and problem-solving skills, which got me a promotion.
Next, I returned to the gym regularly and went on vacation with my friend and younger sister.
When I returned, he picked us up at the airport; he had a flower for my friend and my little sister and a huge bouquet for me.
The weekend after, he threw a surprise party for my birthday and proposed in front of all the people I love.
Without Anina’s wisdom, care, and spot-on consultations, I would have never gotten here.
If you feel you are in a similar situation as mine—that your guy is good, but the more you want things to move forward, the more distant he grows—Anina will help you.
If you do the work, she will fix this.
Things may feel counterintuitive—Anina told me that in our first session—but trust me, they work. Within weeks of coaching, I saw rapid changes in our energy and relationship dynamic.
While I did this to get the ring, I have also gained confidence as a woman.
I practise daily switching from consultant to ‘wife-to-be’ mode. This way, my fiancé cares for me and continues to work hard to impress me.
Marli, financial advisor, Luxembourg
Anina is the only coach I follow for advice on dating and love.
I have found a partner who matches my unconventional, luxurious lifestyle, and we maintain several residences.
Lillith, entrepreneur, Dubai and Europe
I am engaged to the love of my life and have also found a wonderful father for my child.
I went from being a single mother to happily engaged in 1 1/2 years.
Hallveig, engineer, Norway
To me, dating meant meeting a man. If we liked each other, we would be in an exclusive relationship right away, spend time together, and sometimes even play house until something happened that broke us up.
This meant back to square 1: dating again, getting exclusive quickly, till we broke up, and round and round it goes…
Upshot Dating™, Anina’s Signature System, was an absolute revelation for me.
One of the best things I have ever done for my love life was to define my Upshot before I started to date. It is the most empowering thing a woman can do. It changed my dating experience. I would never recommend doing it any other way.
Inga, investor, Lichtenstein
Edit: The client is now engaged
I was looking for a love coach to help me find a boyfriend. I want to start a family as soon as my athletic career ends.
My first and only boyfriend left me for another girl, and I have not been in a relationship since then. I was too scared to get hurt and disappointed again.
I had many limiting beliefs about romantic love and what it means to be a woman.
Being coached by Anina has made me powerful and happy. Of course, as an athlete, I naturally took to her coaching style. It includes visual tools and mentally rehearsing situations.
I found a man who loves me very much and wants to have children with me. He even insisted on proposing and giving me a nice ring after I shared with him that this would feel nice, too.
I never knew I wanted to be engaged until I began coaching with Anina and allowed myself to be a girl who likes romance.
Helmi, professional athlete and sports student, Finland
I was single because I believed that men would be intimidated by my intelligence and academic success. I wanted to get married early, and I felt sad and angry because I thought I needed to dumb myself down to have love.
This was, of course, until I met Anina. Our first conversation was encouraging and lifted a massive weight off my shoulders. I immediately signed up to be a private client.
With Anina by my side, I quickly found a man who ticked all my boxes and was, precisely as she assured me, not intimidated by my brains.
When I was working hard to finish my Phd, he cooked for me, packed my lunches, and was also a great source of emotional support.
The day I received my Phd, he picked me up with the most enormous bouquet I had ever seen. It occupied the entire back seat of his car.
While packing for our vacation, I found a square jewellery box in his bag. I didn’t even open it to peek at the ring, because I knew this was coming. That is how safe and confident I feel in his love. I have 100% trust and faith in his love, and I decided to let him surprise me.
Yael, physicist and academic researcher, Switzerland and Liechtenstein
Edit: The client is now engaged.
Working with Anina has completely changed my life.
Instead of over-focusing on my husband, she taught me how to harness and redirect that energy onto myself and my career.
When I stopped obsessing over our marriage, I had the energy to start my own business, which he greatly supported.
We are more connected and in love than ever, and I could not be more grateful to my coach.
Tamar, dental hygienist, Canada and Morocco
I met Anina at a yoga class in Cambodia years ago. We became friends and regularly met for coffee. She told me that she would get married soon, but to my surprise, she did not have a boyfriend.
I still see her in front of me, in the restaurant, drinking her green tea and saying: “I just know, and I have my way”.
She certainly did, and she got married seven months later. She also turned that “own way” into an impressive business.
I am a global nomad, meaning I work remotely and want to keep up this lifestyle.
Anina helped me find my soulmate. We are married and travel the world together.
Shira, website designer, Argentina
I used to think I had to be perfect and avoid conflict with a man at all costs. Walking on raw eggs was incredibly draining, and at some point, I got sick of the perfect version I was trying to project.
While I was Anina’s client, I got to know myself much more deeply. I understood that not everything Grandma had told me about love was true.
I do not have to be perfect to deserve love. I have never been freer and lighter. I am dating and am sure I will get engaged very soon.
Natalia, research analyst, Russia and Switzerland
Edit: The client is now engaged
I wanted to get married early. I was 22 at the time. But I felt scared because it seemed everyone around me was very negative about it. I kept hearing that getting married early or to your first love would inevitably lead to divorce. None of my peers believed men our age wanted something serious or were ready to be husbands. I was also told that marrying young and building a relationship with a man would mean he would leave you for a younger woman once you were established.
I am thankful I met Anina, who helped me work through this. I am now happily engaged to a man my age who wants the same as I do. He wants to build a life together and grow old. Of course, you never know what life has in store, but we both believe in our plan and are committed to making this work.
I have learned from Anina that it is not age but specific characteristics to look for in a man. Anina also taught me the skills to build and foster the relationship. This gives me the best chance to create the everlasting love we both want.
Thank you, Anina; you are the best teacher and like a sister to me.
Mirelle, software engineer, Lichtenstein
This was eye-opening! I had no idea how all the things I was doing, with my best intentions, were the reason why my relationships with both my exes and my ex-fiancé ended badly and with a broken heart.
I had a messed-up dynamic when it came to men and dating.
Learning about polarity, understanding what creates romantic attraction, and deciding to face my intimacy fears completely changed my love life!
Anina should write a PhD on all this!
Being a feminine woman, feeling safe and calm while receiving from men was initially a real challenge for me. I am very independent and need my freedom. However, this approach is far superior and much more nourishing.
I also got clarity on what I am looking for through consultations: I want to get married, but don’t want children.
I am now attracted to a different type of man than I would have been in the past, which shows how much I have healed. It is incredible how Anina helped me overcome my chemistry-based attraction patterns.
I enjoy Upshot Dating™, and I am seeing several men. I know the ring is not far away anymore.
Ricarda, therapist, Spain
Edit: The client is now married.
I first had to learn what healthy love is and how it feels. Only then was I able to attract men who treated me well. Love is not crazy chemistry and heartache. Love is his decent, consistent actions over time.
To define my Upshot™, I listed all the qualities I wanted in a man.
I suddenly realised that I already knew this man. We had been friends for about 15 years, and he had always had a liking for me.
I decided to give him a chance and allowed him to pursue me. He is caring and kind, and I am falling deeper in love with him each day. Of course, he proposed, and this is the happiest I have ever been.
Sandra, laboratory assistant, Lebanon and France
The only mistake you can make when it comes to Anina’s work is to wait around and not get started right away. The sooner you start, the faster you will be engaged or find the love you want. I knew about Anina for two years until I finally got my act together and invested in her consultations.
After 5 months, I had a ring on my finger and was married in 10 months.
My only regret is not having started earlier, but thankfully, I could still have children—two pregnancies with one set of twins. My husband supported me in ways I never dared to dream was possible from a man.
All I can say is, start today.
Nadine, biophysicist, Switzerland and Liechtenstein
Issues my husband and I have been struggling with and discussing to death for years are the past.
I could see how the repetitive arguments pulled us further apart, and I understood that I needed help.
Things feel so light and easy now. I think it is safe to say that you saved my marriage. Whenever he gets me flowers, I want to give them to you.
Matty, architect, Sweden
For now, I am dating men, platonically, to get to know their personalities better. I have grown-up children, and I am not looking to get legally married. I have done very well in business and recently sold my company.
I want to enjoy the golden years and early retirement with a partner. I have never felt as free, confident, empowered or attractive as I do now.
When it comes to chronological age, Anina could be my daughter. I am constantly in awe of her wisdom and class. Please do yourself a favour and look at her work. I can highly recommend it.
Love, from Lisa
Lisa, lawyer and businesswoman, Lichtenstein
Edit: Lisa has found her ideal partner.
This young woman is an old soul! Anina, your wisdom is worth every cent!
I have referred my niece, who wants to get married and start a family, to Anina.
Once my little granddaughter is old enough, I will make sure she will learn from Anina.
Anina’s teachings will change the course of her life, making her a very happy woman.
Julietta, psychiatrist/trauma specialist for Holocaust survivors, Haifa / Israel and the U.S.
It seemed common for all the women around me to do too much, be exhausted, and completely ignore it. Anina told me to stop pulling the carriage like a workhorse. Her tools are brilliant. She encouraged me to turn inwards and connect to myself instead of overfocusing on a man.
I decided to leave my relationship and met a wonderful new man. He helps me walk my dogs and takes me on surprise dates. I continue to apply all of Anina’s teachings and look forward to the wonderful future we are building together daily.
Inese, Medical Dr, Latvia
Edit: The client is now married.
Anina, you give me hope! So much has changed since I found you! Thank you! I’m using your dating advice, and it’s working like a charm. Never has dating been easier. You are a gift from above.
Delila, professional ballerina, Paris
Edit: The client is now engaged.
I was in a relationship, and on an intellectual level, I knew what my problems and triggers were. Yet, despite knowing it all, I was unable to make any changes. The relationship broke down, and I couldn’t get him back.
I was crushed and blamed myself. It was not a good time in my life. I spent about a year feeling bad till I decided to get back into dating. But this time, I wanted to get it right. So, I bought sessions with Anina.
Anina showed me how to set up a proper online dating profile. I attracted polite and nice men looking for the same things as me online. Anina also taught me how to date according to her system.
When things got more serious, she helped me explain to men that I wanted to be a wife. At this point, I knew I would not get into a relationship without a proposal.
Of course, we also worked on not only understanding my issues and triggers, but Anina also gave me the skills to solve and manage them actively. For this, I will be forever grateful, and I am so proud of myself because I am a different woman now. I am emotionally mature, warm, and open.
Shortly after our sessions ended, I was proposed to. We laugh a lot and enjoy cooking and playing sports together. None of this would have been possible without Anina’s support. I hope she will come to my wedding; she is my fairy.
Yuliana, dentist, Poland and Lichtenstein
I met Anina when we both worked as models. Already back then, among all these perfect and gorgeous-looking chicks, she had that special something I never forgot.
We stayed in touch through Facebook, and when Anina started her consulting business, I had just gotten divorced. I immediately knew it was time to learn from her.
Trust me, I was blown away! This stuff is deep, and it makes you the woman you are really meant to be!
I am engaged to the most loyal, honest man I have ever met. Although he was not my type when I met him, I have never been this happy.
For all of you women considering consultations with Anina, I can only say, do it! It is worth it.
Zaylee, model, Paris and U.S.
I immediately liked the concept of Upshot-Dating™.
How I manage everything: my busy work schedule, being on call, and my dating life, where I get to know great men, has drastically improved.
I feel very balanced and experience a lot less stress overall. Not being stressed about love or thinking I must impress men and prove my worth gives me much more energy to do it all.
I sleep much better at night and on the plane while I fly back and forth between the States and my private clinic in my home country.
I also dared to completely restyle myself, getting a different hair colour, haircut, and new wardrobe. I found my own style, and I love it. My family, friends, and coworkers have all noticed the difference. I am happy and vibrant and get lots of compliments.
Being myself has never felt this good! I am so glad I found Anina’s work. Currently, I am seeing three men on a regular basis. I have a feeling that my favourite man is going to propose very soon.
Susan, Medical Dr, U.S. and Mexico
Edit: The client is now engaged.
I was at the peak of my career, with a booming, self-built business and brand. I had everything—the house, the cars, the looks—but still no success in love. I was separated from both baby daddies and was a single mom of four children between the ages of six months and nine years.
It was tough to face the mess my love life was in. And I couldn’t understand why it did not work out for me. I am strong, caring, disciplined, hard-working and good-looking. Still, I got cheated on and left twice by the men I had babies with.
Through Anina’s consultations, I could see that what made me successful as a fitness influencer, businesswoman, and a good mother pushed men and love away.
At first, I resisted this, but Anina picked me up right where I was and helped me change my approach. I especially liked her concrete tools and exercises.
My Ex and I got back together, and this time, I know so much better. I make an effort to switch between modes as a businesswoman, mother, and lover, just like Anina trained me to.
I will follow Anina and make sure my girls know this, too.
Talia, fitness influencer and businesswoman, U.S.
Dear Anina,
I wanted to spend some time over the holidays and express my love and appreciation.
Please use this publicly as a testimony to your work. More women, no, every woman needs to know about you! I have come so far working with you, and I am committed to continuing to work with you as I evolve and create my wonderful life.
Before I met you, I was a single mother, divorced, hardworking, and burnt out. My love life was nonexistent, and my dating life was a disaster, to say it mildly. As a medical doctor, you are a true gem in the world of healing and self-development. I frequently refer many of my female patients to you.
You helped me draw boundaries, value myself, reconnect to my feminine side, and find true love with a man who worships the ground I walk on. Looking at my life, I am so blessed, but most of all, deep inside, I feel good about myself and my worth.
All my Love, Dr. Trudy
Trudy, GP, Geneva, Switzerland
I was not dating before I became Anina’s client. My whole life, I never even got flowers from a man. I thought I was too strong and independent, and that love was not meant for me.
Little did I know that I could be myself and that the right man would love me for who I am. We have now been together for four years, and we’ve been married for two. Thank you, Anina.
Terri, MIT student, U.S.
After 27 years of marriage and three children, I was ready to give it all up. I couldn’t do it anymore. There was nothing wrong with him. He never cheated on me and supported me in building my real estate business. He was there for me during complicated pregnancies and postpartum depression. I still liked him as a person, but I wanted more. I thought the way to get more was to leave.
Thank G-d I met Anina before I left my wonderful husband.
Anina is an old soul. It is unbelievable how she saved my marriage and home. We are in love like teenagers. People who see us on dates assume we are newlyweds or that we must be having an affair because no one can be that happy in love after a lifetime of marriage. That is precisely what I believed before I worked with Anina.
Our beautiful daughter also became Anina’s client, and I am sure she will soon meet her soulmate.
Rafaela, real estate manager, Canada
I found a wonderful stepdad for my little daughter. He is a man who cares about my happiness and that of my child first. He would do anything to see us smile.
He helps her with homework, takes her on playdates, and cooks healthy meals for us. Recently, my daughter had an accident on the playground and needed stitches. He did not leave her side at the hospital. To commend her bravery, he bought her a giant teddy bear the day after.
Before I worked with Anina, I was sure no man would want me. My Ex cheated on me with multiple women while I was pregnant and left me when our daughter was a few weeks old. Needless to say, I was heartbroken and felt like damaged goods.
Anina changed the way I see myself. I feel beautiful from the inside out. I have also never been happier or more confident.
Since working with Anina, my energy has completely changed, and my own business is flourishing. Clients come to me like bees to honey.
My little daughter is going to be way ahead. I am showing her how to love herself and have good taste in men. Our relationship is a good example for her, and she is learning so much.
Thank you, Anina! You have also helped my little daughter by helping me!
Ava, beautician and business owner in Europe
I felt lost in dating, and now I am a Queen who can have her pick.
Good men keep courting me, and I know the best will win.
Thank you so much, dear lovely Anina!
Amira, teacher, U.K.
Edit: The client is now engaged.
In our first conversation, the initial call, Anina let me talk and spill my guts.
After listening to me patiently, she said:
“Can I be very direct with you? And do I have your permission to go straight to what I believe is the issue? You can, of course, correct me if you think I am wrong?”
I consented, and what she said made me cry like I hadn’t cried in years. She went straight to what I did not dare to admit to myself.
She asked me: “Do you feel exhausted and angry? Underneath everything you told me, this is what I sense.”
I learned how to draw boundaries, observe my thoughts, master my mindset and become my best friend.
I finally began to enjoy my company and even went on a vacation alone.
I grew to love my body and my curvy shape.
I now understand what it means to be at ease in your own skin.
I discovered the true meaning of being laid-back and relaxed, even on dates with attractive men.
It did not take working less or compromising on my lifestyle to achieve all this—just Anina coaching me.
It turned dating into zero stress and only fun. I had a few good men around who kept asking me on dates.
Then, by chance, on a flight, I sat next to a man who became my husband. He kept chasing me and then proposed with a giant diamond ring.
He told me that, besides my good looks, what first attracted him to me and, to this day, makes me irresistible is my confidence and ease in my skin.
He said he never felt this good around any woman in his entire life.
I can not wait to have babies and live happily ever after with him by my side. I truly feel like his queen.
Victoria, corporate lawyer, Venezuela and the U.S.
Anina, you are MAGIC !!
Lilly Levi, bank director, Germany
I got a divorce because my ex-husband had cheated on me. I never really healed my heart from it; I just moved on, worked, and took care of my child, and the gym became my outlet.
I remarried eventually, but I could see I was going to ruin this marriage. My jealousy, past hurt and pain were all still there.
I did not want my little daughter to go through another divorce; he loved her, and she started calling him daddy.
After another argument, my husband told me this:
“I think you want me to cheat just to prove you are right. I am not a cheater, and I am not going anywhere. You need help; this is getting in the way of our happiness. ”
Wow! I stood in the kitchen with the salad I had just prepared and understood I needed to do something.
Anina was amazing; I highly recommend her.
She not only saved my marriage but also helped me heal the wounds I still had because of my ex.
Anina also kept telling me that he loves me and that he is there for me.
This made me cry and brought up so much pain, but eventually, I was able to accept it.
We did many of what Anina calls walkthroughs and visual tools.
My homework was repeating a lot of affirmations.
I also had to make the radical decision to trust him unless evidence indicates otherwise.
“Take off the detective hat”, she kept saying to me. “Focus on joy and trust the love you have.”
It worked. I do trust him now, and I can see how he is different from my ex. He is not interested in cheating. I also know that not all men are the same as my ex.
He also thanks Anina for supporting me in all this. And I am so glad I took the step to work with her. Thank you Anina!
Katrina, investor, Lichtenstein
Having Anina as my consultant was one of the best decisions I’ve made in my life.
Thanks to her professionalism, her support and her knowledge, I realised one of the biggest dreams of my life:
Being married to my soulmate.
Through Anina’s consultation and my taking personal responsibility and doing my part, my life got easier, and I am so happy to share it with my darling fiancé.
If you are reading this and you are where I was before I became Anina’s client. Single and with a dream to find your husband. I can confirm and encourage you that becoming Anina’s client is the right path to get there.
Lule, Researcher, Germany
I had no idea. I had been masculine all my life; it seemed normal. It is how I was taught to be and do things.
I was an overachiever and accomplished everything I set my mind to—except for finding a man who wanted to be with me, commit to me, and treat me like his queen.
The ring is just a symbol that I wanted, and, of course, I got it.
But the process there and how it changes you was the best experience of my life.
I love being a feminine woman and the man I attract.
Aya, student, Israel
We were working in the garden when he looked at me and said:
“You are the most beautiful woman I have ever seen.”
I was wearing a large T-shirt, old jeans, and wellies. My hair was a mess, sweaty, and full of dirt from gardening.
I have a man who adores me and goes out of his way to make me happy.
Last week, he added four more garden beds to my backyard garden. It was such a happy surprise when I returned from work.
Morag, bank manager, Ireland
A close friend convinced me to book a single session with Anina. My love life was fine, just not as committed as I secretly wanted it to be. We lived separate lives, and a commitment to each other seemed far-fetched.
I have to admit that the things Anina told me were uncomfortable to look at and deal with. She has a well-trained intuition and understands women. You can not hide from her, but in a good way. I never felt so seen and heard. This is partly due to her education, but more so because of her life experience.
I learned to speak up and stand up for myself in my relationship.
Anina’s love and support helped me transition my relationship to a marriage with the man I love.
Anina taught me how to put myself first and love myself more than I love him.
She taught me how to speak up and not shy away from respectful disagreements with him.
She helped me be okay with him being angry at me sometimes and taught me how to endure the tension that comes with it.
She calls it healthy tension, which makes a lot of sense.
In summary, all the things I found most scary were actually what led him to propose within a few months.
Esther, an art dealer in Europe and the U.S.
Our biggest challenge was housework. We both worked full-time, and I wanted to focus on expanding my father’s business. However, the issues at home continued to pile up.
I loved him and was sure he was the right man for me. Yet, when it came to domestic chores, we couldn’t agree.
He didn’t mind me succeeding in my career, but as soon as we were both home, he went into hibernation mode and expected me to cater to him, too. I am a chef and restaurant manager, so I went into full-time work mode at home, lifting all the weight while he watched TV and took time to rest and reset.
I used to just take it because I thought it was normal. After three years, it became too much. I also worked and needed to reset and rest after a long day at work. I was tired and grew increasingly resentful.
Anina helped me solve this issue by standing up for myself and drawing boundaries. He realised I was ready to walk away, even though I loved him.
Anina gave me scripts on how to communicate with him through that storm.
Things have changed so much since then. We are equal partners now, also when it comes to housework. Anina has saved our marriage.
I love you, Anina, and I thank you so much for everything.
Basma, restaurant manager, France
Consulting with you is the best thing I have ever done for myself.
Katarina, psychologist, New Zealand
Anina has given me an entirely new perspective on what it means and what it feels like to be a woman. We instantly clicked when we spoke. Anina felt like a long-lost sister and, at the same time, the new, more advanced version of myself. She showed me what is possible for me, who I truly am, and how to access this new version of myself.
The tools and skills she shared enable me to continue this work independently. I appreciate how important Anina considers her clients’ independence and the respect she shows for their individuality.
My entire life has changed for the better in every aspect. As the cherry on top, I also found the man of my dreams and got engaged in less than a year.
I used Anina’s Signature System, Upshot-Dating™. Dating this way is fun and self-determined. I shared this heartbreak-proof way of dating with all my girlfriends.
Thank you so much for coming into my life, Anina; we all love you!
Karola, international relations specialist, Europe
I liked unavailable men and found those who were interested in me boring. I would get hung up on either a taken man or a man who turned hot and cold on me.
Working with Anina created the following results for me:
- I got engaged. Yay! That is the most significant and apparent result!
- I learned how to identify and assert my boundaries.
- I communicate with grace and certainty.
- I can receive from men, and I appreciate them for their support and protection.
- I truly love myself for who I am as a woman.
- I know how to be in the moment and enjoy life.
Thank you very much, Anina!
Adeleen, accountant, Dubai
When I met my now husband, the love of my life, there was no crazy chemistry, no intense attraction and uncertainty that kept me on my toes and made me work hard to win the guy.
He was just a kind, decent man who showed up on a date with an ironed shirt, clean-shaven, short-cut hair and picked up the check.
Everything was stable, certain and honest. He called me regularly and always did what he said he would do. Steadily and slowly, by him being there consistently over time, the butterflies in my stomach started to show.
If not for Anina, I would have cast him out after the first date because he did not make me nervous.
But with my history of choosing unavailable, chemistry-based, taken, or even married men, Anina told me to strictly date this type—the type I found boring.
I have to say it was a challenge because, in hindsight, my idea of love and how intense it has to feel was very unhealthy.
I am so glad I listened to Anina and her guidance. She explained my patterns to me, she healed me with her tools and taught me how to create the type of love that starts slow and burns forever.
She told me she wanted me to put a pot of cold water on a hot stove so it would slowly start cooking and then burn forever.
This made sense to me. Because in the past, I would put boiling water on a cold stove.
Today so much has changed, and I would not want to go back to the past for anything.
My hubby is my big, strong teddy bear, and I am the princess he protects.
I did not know feeling this safe and stable in love was possible. I am not bored at all, but just happy and blessed. Thank you forever, dear Anina.
Emilia, architect, Switzerland and Argentina
I would text men first, ask them out on dates, pay for vacations, and have casual s**. I was out to prove to the world that I was a modern, strong woman who could do anything a man could do.
I still believe that, just not when pursuing a man. I want to be the feminine partner in a romantic relationship.
Anina helped me admit and understand that going after men this way and having casual s** was hurting me and not authentically me.
We dedicated a big chunk of our sessions to sorting out my intimacy fears, and I committed to following Anina’s Upshot-Dating™.
I was getting to know four men without being physical, and one of them won.
We are now in a committed relationship. He relocated for me, and we are planning our wedding.
Thanks to the way I dated and the work I did on myself, we have a solid foundation.
Maren, lawyer, Germany
I was the common denominator. I was with different men and had the same catastrophic outcome and heartbreak.
My options were: 1. repeat, 2. stop dating and give up, or 3. get help. It took a while for me to admit that I needed help.
I chose Anina because she is not only a psychologist, trained counsellor and certified coach but also has a background in physics.
A pseudo-scientific approach was something that concerned me in the self-help industry. If this also concerns you, Anina is the right woman for you.
She is very logical and provides clear steps, exercises, and homework. Furthermore, she adapts everything to your situation and personality.
With her help, I was able to create the romantic situation I always wanted.
My ring, the love, and the home life I have are living proof of this.
My husband makes me decaf every morning for work and massages my feet after a long day in heels. He also covers all bills and expenses for my horse, even though I have a high-paying job myself, simply because he loves taking care of me.
Lea, physicist and investment banker, Monaco
Anina saved my marriage. Although we were considered a power couple from the outside, behind closed doors, it felt like hell.
Through couples therapy, I could see my husband drifting even further away. It was like a car crash happening right in front of my eyes.
One day, after another horrible session, he told me he wanted to divorce and not do this anymore.
He said it on the way home, in the car; I was so devastated that I had to pull over.
If not for Anina, this would have been it.
Anina taught me how to connect to my feminine side and allow my husband to get back into his masculine side —a concept the couple’s therapist was blind to.
Within a few weeks of only me, being coached by Anina, our marriage was not only saved but better than ever!
I will continue to learn from Anina to keep my marriage in this happy place.
Karin, pilot, Finnland
Finally, I have found true love after 25 years of trial and error. I wish I had met you earlier, but I will make sure my daughter and nieces will.
Ariela, cardiologist, Namibia
My ex-boyfriend cheated on me, which left a scar. When I found out that my husband had an affair with a woman from work, I was devastated.
My thoughts were: One woman is not enough. Relationships don’t last. All men cheat.
Deep down inside, I believed it was my fault.
When I began working with Anina, I came to the sessions to fix myself so he would finally be faithful. Anina’s consultations completely changed how I relate to men and romance as a woman.
I left my husband. Even though we talked it over, I did not want to continue the relationship. We parted on good terms. It felt right, good, and free.
I first went on a cruise to take some time for myself. Then, I stayed in Costa Rica for a whole month, where I booked additional private sessions with Anina.
Back home, I got a new job and met my future husband at a local sports club. I trust him and can feel I am enough for him. Our relationship is unlike any I have had before.
It is because I am different in the way I present myself as a woman and treat myself. All that is thanks to Anina.
Sally, business analyst, Canada
I became a client because I wanted the ring, but I got so much more than that on the way there. Without focusing and working on myself, making such changes to my love life and sustaining them would not have been possible.
Anina taught me how to balance masculine and feminine energy. I especially needed to learn how to switch out of work mode. I have a lot of responsibility at work, so I needed to train myself to relinquish some of that responsibility in my free time.
When I understood how to trust a man and let him lead, I felt less burnt out, and my current relationship recharges me.
Anina also helped me love myself on a much deeper level than just for my accomplishments and what I can do.
Through all this, I found a man who opens doors for me, picks me up after a night shift, ensures I get home safely, and lets me sleep in. He never lets a day go by without making sure I feel loved and cared for for the woman I am.
Paulina, anesthesiologist, Lichtenstein
Upshot-Dating™ has taken me from confusion to absolute clarity about what type of relationship and commitment I want. It also taught me not only what I needed to do to have it but, most importantly, who I needed to be in order to attract the right man for me.
It was life-changing for me to go through this process. I went from being a total overgiver and overdoer to a laid-back queen who lets men impress and court her. I picked the best man, who has been there for me through thick and thin.
Majdolin, web developer, Singapore
Edit: The client is now married.
She hits the nail on the head each time she consults you!
It was a massive step for me to invest in private consultations and accept help, but I’m glad I did!
Anina is one of a kind. There is no drama and no blah blah, just solutions and tools to implement outside of the sessions. Following her advice has changed my life.
I am a lawyer with a very successful career and own law firm. However, my private life, including being a woman and romance, was on the back burner for years.
With Anina’s guidance, I know the ring is on the way. I can feel it, and I have never felt this good as a woman who is dating with the intention of marriage.
Thank you, Anina, you are the best!
Monique, Lawyer, Switzerland and the U.S.
Edit: The client is now engaged.
If you are looking for relationships and dating advice, and are scientifically literate. Anina is the right person for you. I needed help with my marriage, but as a physicist, seeing coaches use terms like” quantum leaping” or “quantum tracking” instantly discredited them.
Leonora, physicist, Estonia
I was going to be 40. We had been together for 12 years, with one breakup in between, during which we remained friends. I knew he loved me, but it just was not enough anymore. One morning, I woke up and understood that my time was running out. In all clarity, I knew I wanted a baby and a ring.
Working with Anina was the best decision I have ever made. It showed me where I went wrong all these years and taught me how to inspire him to claim me. He proposed, I got pregnant, and he now fully provides for me so I can take care of myself and our baby.
Brittany, event manager, London
I am engaged to the love of my life!
He was at my parents’ house last night to ask for my hand in marriage.
Today, he officially proposed to me at our favourite park.
I am extremely happy and grateful to Anina and her Upshot-Dating™.
Yasmine, hotel manager, Turkey
I was in a relationship where I did everything for him. I am a doctor; he is a pharmacist. I kept him company during his night shifts. I slept over at his pharmacy, cooked him homemade food, and brought it over. I thought, we were a good match, both educated and successful. I was sure I was an excellent partner and soon-to-be wife.
After two years, he left me for a woman who had no money, was less educated than me, and, to my shock, did not do half of what I did for him. He then began providing for her because she wanted to study Spanish and be a stay-at-home wife. So he also married her! But he had not been ready to marry me before. I couldn’t believe it; my world was turned upside down.
I came across Anina’s work and became her private client by chance. It was a hard truth to digest that men do not love us for our accomplishments or if we mother them (on the contrary), but for how they feel around us and that they fall in love by giving to us. I understood why he married her after a few months, but did not marry me, even though I had done so much for him.
My broken heart and bruised ego needed time, and I couldn’t have done it without Anina. She was kind and compassionate, and she consulted with me during this tough period of my life.
Today, I am a completely different woman. I am now in a relationship with a man who takes care of me, cooks for me, and spoils me. Our dynamic is entirely different from what I had in my previous relationship. I am at the receiving end of the relationship, and it’s so healing to feel valued and poured into.
Ulrike, doctor, Germany
Edit: The client is now married.
I am engaged with Anina’s help and Upshot-Dating™. Thank you so much!
Xiang, PhD. Student, U.S.
He proposed on New Year’s Eve.
I was dating several men, following Anina’s system. I had drinks and an aperitif with one man I was dating, and then went for dinner at a friend’s house. My now-fiancé was there, as we have the same group of friends.
Shortly before midnight, he asked me to watch the fireworks on the roof terrace. He took my hand and guided me as we made our way up there, me in heels on the steep stairway.
He got us the best spot and asked for permission to kiss me. He is such a gentleman; I love that bout him.
We shared a gentle kiss. I could feel him tense up.
He said. “I need to talk to you about something.”
I immediately felt stressed, too, but I instantly remembered what you had taught me: that the right man would show himself, and the wrong man would leave to make space for the right one. So I knew that regardless of what happens now, I will be fine, and this is my best.
But I heard him say.
“I never felt this way with you. I want to be with you forever. You are the only one for me.”
I smiled and told him the script we prepared, that I was looking for marriage.
He smiled and did not seem surprised.
“So, what do I have to do to be with you? Should I propose?”
I just stood there, said nothing more and smiled, holding the space for him to take charge, as you taught me to. You would have been so proud of me; I know I am.
He laughed and said
“I thought so.”
And then Anina, he did it. He went down on one knee while the fireworks cracked in the background and asked me to marry him.
Of course, I said yes, and my engagement ring will be made of different, colourful stones to remind me of the light and colours of fireworks.
Rachel, accountant, London / Poland