Read here how my client, Matilda, effortlessly met more men, was asked for her number, and got invited on dates.  

Matilda (*Name changed for privacy reasons) is a high-profile lawyer who flies back and forth between Berlin and Strasbourg almost weekly for work. Matilda is also a single mother to a 15-year-old boy and is responsible for her beautiful villa and household. You can imagine she is busy! 

This is what Matilda wrote to me from a business trip: 

“Anina, your training is doing magic! After just two weeks of working with you, my experience has completely changed. I have been on the same flights, in the same airport lounges, and even visited the same coffee shops and hotels for several years, and I have never met anyone. Now I can not stop men from approaching me and asking me out.”

Matilda did not work less or change her routine; instead, she applied the three things I had told her to. This changed the way she appears to men in day-to-day life. You too can do this anywhere, anytime.

1.) SLOW DOWN 

I like to think of it as driving in lower gear!

With our busy lives, numerous responsibilities, and high-profile positions with never-ending to-do lists, it can easily happen that we rush through our day at high speed, which is the quickest way to lose touch with our femininity. 

Mathilda stopped running through the airport terminals like “a headless chicken in a business suit, stomping her high heels in loud noise” (those are her exact words btw.). 

Instead, Matilda made a point to relax her shoulders, drop into her body, breathe and put her feet down gracefully and with less noise, as I taught her to do. She absolutely loves the way this makes her feel. She now uses these moments to practise deep breathing and relaxation. 

2.) SMILE MORE 

I regularly remind myself to slow down, walk my feminine walk and simply enjoy. As soon as I take the time to do so, I immediately find plenty of reasons to smile. 

Mathilda practised this on her usual way home from the airport, passing by the supermarket to shop and go home to cook dinner. Instead of rushing, she paid attention to the way she walked. The flowers in the supermarket made her smile, so she stopped and took time to choose a bouquet for her kitchen counter. 

Daydreaming and appreciating the flowers, she was approached and asked out on a date by a man she describes as an absolute gentleman.

3.) MAKE EYE CONTACT 

I can assure you that, in this state of taking the time to slow down and then expressing your appreciation with a smile, you will already draw men to you.

When you are residing in your feminine this way, allowing for eye contact, is the only thing that is needed on your behalf, and men will approach you. 

If you are new to this, just like I was, here is how it works. 

While you slow down and take time to appreciate life and smile, when your eyes cross those of a nice man, challenge yourself to hold eye contact for a little longer than usual. You can count to 3 seconds, smile, then break eye contact by looking away and shortly after return to eye contact. 

Depending on your cultural background, making eye contact this way can feel challenging. I understand you; I struggled with that too, back when I was dating as a single girl. What helped me was reminding myself that I can choose to make eye contact when I am in a safe environment, and that I am generally safe. 

Summary: 

Slowing down, smiling more and allowing for eye contact to happen immediately puts you in your feminine energy, and men are able to approach you. 

Whereas doing everything in a rush, with no time to smile and unavailable for eye contact, is like a shield, which makes it impossible for good men to approach you. 

If you are similar to my lovely client Matilda, here is what I recommend.

• Go to my blog section, Feminine Energy.
• And of course, get familiar with Upshot-Dating,™ my Signature Dating System. 

Lots of Love,

Anina

P.S. Always remember to make time to have fun and enjoy the process!