My lovely client Laura is a good example of how Upshot-Dating™, my Signature System, is the solution for women who are stuck in conventional dating. 

“Stuck in conventional dating” means:

• Any situation where you, as the woman, are all the way into the relationship, sometimes for years without the commitment (a ring, a wedding), or the life (children, a shared home, future plans) you desire or are waiting for. Yet, the relationship is exclusive. Which holds you back from meeting other men, one of them being ready to give you the commitment and relationship you want.  

• If a relationship you have given your all to has not worked out, you are devastated, and you take a break from dating, sometimes for years, only to go back to dating and start the same type of relationship all over again—one where you commit before you have the commitment you want. This cycle repeats, just with different men.  

This way of dating costs women precious childbearing years, not to mention what it does to their hearts and self-worth.

Laura went through this cycle several times till she found me and started Upshot-Dating™, which changed her life. 

Here is Laura’s story, in her own words. 

What does your life look like today, Laura? 

I am very happy, and my life is precisely what I have always wanted. 

Besides a job I like, I have found my husband. 

We have a happy home and family life. 

We have a two-year-old daughter, and I am five months pregnant. 

My husband takes good care of us, so I do not need to work to provide, only as much as I want to and enjoy. 

This gives me the stability and space to enjoy caring for our children, which I have always wanted. 

I feel very blessed and thank my stars, specifically YOU, Anina, every day. 

What was your situation when you became my client? 

I was 36 and had just broken up with my boyfriend of three years. 

I realized that if I still wanted children, something needed to happen. 

I slowly started losing hope. 

This was not what I had planned my life to look like at this age. 

I always wanted children; you can say I am the family and marrying kind. 

But I could not find a man who wanted the same. 

I was depressed because I could see that my relationships always followed the same pattern. 

I was fully committed and in love. 

After a few years, I thought we would finally be ready to take it to the next level and start a family. 

This dream seemed more unrealistic with each breakup, and I became more hopeless. 

What made you decide to take the final step and become my client?

I felt I could not do this anymore; I knew I could not go through another relationship that would lead nowhere and end in a devastating break-up. 

Because, with every relationship and every break-up, I felt I had given and then lost another piece of myself. 

I could sense that soon, there would be nothing left to give. 

I also realized that at 36, I did not have the time to give things a chance anymore if I still wanted children. 

That was when it became clear to me that I needed advice. 

What was working with me like as a private consultation client? 

Working with you was the highlight of the week for me. 

I was feeling really low regarding my love life and ready to throw in the towel. 

Your energy was so uplifting and contagious, and it made me so hopeful. 

I always felt that I could tell you anything, and I am still amazed at how well you get me and people in general. 

You have a gift, Anina. 

I especially appreciate how everything you taught me was geared towards me, being independent, feeling empowered, and finding myself.

You never give one-size-fits-all solutions; instead, you tune into the client and consult. 

What would you want a woman reading this to know? 

Know your worth, ladies! And listen to Anina! 

I am a modern, educated, strong, and independent woman. 

Everything in my life was great: my career, my health, my house. 

I was financially stable and could travel and afford nice things. 

But I was never taught how to date like a woman. 

I had no idea that I was the precious prize men wanted to work for.

Anina has created an extraordinary dating system and gives you the missing pieces you need to create the romantic life of your dreams.

Laura, 41 years, Canada 

I loved consulting with Laura, too, and I am so happy to see her enjoying the life she so consciously created. 

Laura is the perfect example of how you can completely turn around your dating and love life, regardless of your past.  

*The interview was translated from French to English. Laura is a Native French speaker, so we spoke French during our sessions. 

Find further reading on this topic here: Upshot-Dating™ versus conventional dating.  

Lots of Love, Anina