Should I tell the men I date that I am looking for marriage? I want to start a family, but I am worried it will scare men away.
YES.
Yes, definitely tell a man that you are looking for marriage.
I understand that this may feel straightforward and a bit scary, but bear with me.
This article will give you the confidence to tell any man your goal is marriage, gracefully and with ease. As the Modern Queen does.👑
Here are all the reasons why I strongly advise telling men you date that you are looking for marriage.
I will also show the costs and risks of not telling a man what you are dating for. And of course, address the fear that it will scare him away.
Upshot-Dating™ requires it.
Following my Signature System, you won’t get around setting your dating goal with certainty.
As the name implies, when following my dating system, you decide on your outcome before she even sets foot into the dating scene.
It is super attractive.
Besides this being a core value of my Brand, knowing what you want and, as the Queen of Your Life, going and creating it.
It is very attractive when a woman knows what she wants.
Decent, masculine men love women who know what they want and feel worthy of it.
It makes you the queen he can adore.
It makes you a match for the right man.
Men who know what they want will appreciate it.
It will draw the right men to you.
There are many like-minded, marriage-minded men out there who are looking for their forever woman.
Men, too, want to settle down and start a family.
Hiding your true intentions: marriage and family, will make those men overlook you.
Upshot-Dating™ helps you create a pool of men who share the same values as you.
Following my Signature System, you will date several men until one of them proposes to you.
This is the old-fashioned way women used to date, and does not imply being physically intimate.
Through Upshot-Dating™, you avoid wasting years of your life on a man who keeps you in a relationship but does not go all the way for you.
It will keep the wrong men away.
This is to address the concern many women have that it will scare him away.
The right man for you, and any man you date who is looking for marriage, will appreciate you saying this.
The wrong man, not a bad person per se, but all men who are not ready to settle down, don’t believe in marriage and by that are wrong for you, will fall off the radar early on.
Which is VERY GOOD!!
You won’t waste each other’s time, and he doesn’t take up space in your life that should be reserved for mature marriage-minded men.
It is in how you say it.
Saying you are looking for marriage is not the same as telling a specific man what you want to marry him.
If you look at the following client examples and also my own, you can see that none of us speak directly to a specific man, telling him we want to marry him.
Instead, we expressed what we were looking for and stayed on our track, while dating, focused on our upshot.
Melli said with calm confidence:
“Yes, I am looking for marriage and want to start a family within the next 2 years.”
On New Year’s, I told men I was dating about my New Year’s resolution:
“For my husband to find me and propose to me.”
Pearl, my client, said:
“I am on several dating platforms, dating different men to find my husband. I am looking for marriage. I am not interested in just a relationship.”
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