Daya writes: 

“Dear Anina, I know you do not encourage thinking and overly focusing on a man. But what if he is super cute and I can’t forget about him since I met him on a girls’ night out at the bar? 

Nothing happened between us; we just had a great conversation, and he asked for my number. He has called since, and now I find myself daydreaming about him. When I take my lunch breaks at work and throughout the day, I drift away thinking about him.

Yesterday, I pictured us together on a picnic with children. Please help; I intellectually know that this is too much, but I feel carried away and keep seeing his beautiful eyes and smile. Thank you, Daya”

Here is my reply to Daya and any woman who finds herself in a similar situation.  

As you recognised yourself, it is too early, too much and too soon an investment into a man you have just met and whom you know nothing about. 

While this type of daydreaming about a man may seem harmless – and is (unfortunately) very common amongst women who are not familiar with my work – I strongly advise my clients to keep these types of thoughts to a minimum. 

When dating according to my Signature System, we want you, as the woman, to lean back and let the man take on the active, masculine role of the pursuer. 

If this seems new or counterintuitive, I can assure you that once you have experienced the feeling of resting in your feminine role, you will not want to go back. 

As a feminine woman, dating and men will be very easy: 

You define your upshot, and here I advise you to listen to your heart and hold on to that sweet image of a happy family. Daya, having a husband and children, is your upshot. – your dating goal. 

When you follow my system, you will get exactly that. Just don’t make it about a specific man until the man has proposed to you. 

Instead of running out to pursue a specific man or any man, focus on yourself.

Be brave and work on letting down all the walls that have been built up due to past pain, which keeps love and good men away.

Shine your light and let the best man win. It’s fun, and the right man for you will find you. 

The best way to start now is by learning about feminine energy and signing up for the Bronze Level (*free) Email List.

Which is my free self-study course laying out step by step how to find the right man fast and heartbreak-free. 

If you are ready for Gold Level, you can schedule a call to inquire about personal consultations with me here. 

All my Love,

Anina xoxo 

Edit: Daya became my client and started Upshot-Dating™. Today she has a toddler and another baby on he way. And yes, they go for picnics as a family, just as she allowed her heart to envision it.