My name is Pauline, and I worked with Anina in two sets of sessions over 18 months. Today, I am happy and married to the love of my life. All thanks to Anina, her incredible Signature System, Upshot-Dating®, and, of course, her talent as a coach. 

I am a Psychologist and licensed therapist. Due to my work, I have met numerous therapists and coaches, and other mental health professionals. Only a few, and far between, have the same gift and skill as Anina.

She is incredibly sharp and very educated in her field. Her sense, empathy and understanding of her client are outstanding. You do not find this level of skill every day. 

Here is my situation before I became Anina’s private client. 

I had a burnout, and as a therapist, I diagnosed this myself. But that is where my skills ended. No matter what I did. It would not improve. I went on a 4-month solo trip. I considered giving up my therapy practice and becoming a Yoga teacher. 

My 10-year relationship ended. Not in a big bam, just with indifference. We kind of gave up trying, but that is ok. We were not meant to be anyway. He was a very feminine, indecisive man, and I thought that was what I wanted. But in truth, it was one of the major factors that had burned me out. 

I then dated a man who was still best friends with his ex and who expected me to pretend we were just friends in front of her. So her feelings wouldn’t be hurt. Looking back, I felt really ashamed that I accepted this. I tried too hard to win him and make her feel ok. I cooked dinner for both of them and tried to talk to her about it. Needless to say, it didn’t work out, and they are back together again. She cheated on him, left him, and he wanted nothing but her back.Sometimes I think he used me just to make her jealous. … more to that later. 

Next was a man 11 years younger than me; we had a very passionate but borderline toxic love affair. Lots of explosive fights and make-up sex. He was an aspiring musician, broke and happy to move in with me after a few weeks. I began financing him, and he got more and more demanding, expecting me to put him on my bank account. I had just inherited money from my parents, and my therapy practice was well established.  

At that point, a good friend of mine told me to pull the brakes on this relationship. Me and her went on a short weekend getaway, which he did not like. By a leap of faith, I was introduced to Anina through a mutual acquaintance, and I can definetly say this was one of the best things that ever happened to me. 

What working with Anina was like.

I must reiterate: I have never seen such talent combined with professional, science-based training. Of course, the results speak for themselves. I am not the only woman who has succeeded in turning everything around and is happy with her true love today. 

Anina helped me overcome my burnout. Supported me in making peace with myself and letting go of all the shame I was carrying about all the” mistakes” I had made with men. She explained the concepts of feminine and masculine energy to me and taught me about Upshot-Dating®. Got me together with the right man in the happiest relationship I have ever had. 

I didn’t need to leave my job, change careers, or travel around the world. I just needed Anina to see me and tell me where I needed to tweak a few things. I enjoy yoga, but the yoga teacher training is just for fun. I have no intentions of quitting my job. I also still treat myself to luxurious trips and wellness weekends. But not to run away from anything, but to enjoy self-care because I deserve it. 

My experience with Upshot-Dating® 

I began Upshot-Dating® at 38, after two decades of heartbreak and frustration. I will start with the conclusion: all women should date this way. It is genius. Anina has done exactly as she advertises: put together all the best aspects of dating from old and new, east and west. In my view, her dating system is also feminist. It is very powerful, and for the first time in my life, I felt like a desired feminine woman in the world of dating and men. 

Even when I was younger —I am still young —I never had so many men run after me and treat me with so much respect, effort, and concern for my well-being. Chivalry is back, and polarity is reborn when you date this way. Dating was effortless. I enjoyed it immensely. I believe it was a big heart that helped me heal from burnout. Being feminine, soft and protected and taken care of by men. 

How I met him. 

I saw several men regularly (no sex), and they all knew that I was looking for marriage. I met my now-husband at a party a few days after he had left his wife. We were instantly drawn to each other, and something clicked. I knew that was the one. 

When he told me he was getting a divorce, I heard all the nasty voices that he might be lying, not really intending to leave his wife and that I would be just the rebound. At the same time, I felt so tempted to engage in an affair because there was this strong pull. He was everything I was looking for. 

I discussed the situation with Anina. Thanks to that, I did not sabotage my dating life with an affair. I did not give in to negative talk, judgment, or fears about him or the state of his divorce, either. Based on Anina’s advice, I told him the truth. 

Here is what I said. 

I find you very attractive, and you seem like everything I am looking for. 

Expect that you are still married. That does not work for me. 

I am dating several men to find the right one. 

I want a ring, get married and settle down. 

That is why, even though I like you, I cannot date you. 

I wish you all the best. 

I stayed focused on my dating goal—my upshot —and kept trusting that the right man would make his move at the right time. I continued dating, and although I was honest with myself about how much I liked him, I remained open and met other amazing men. 

About a year later, I got a text message saying. 

“My divorce has been finalised. Would you date me now?”

I instantly replied, “Yes, I would.” 

He proposed 4 months later. Of course, I immediately accept. 

How does my life look now? 

I am absolutely happy. I have never been this happy.  My husband, the love of my life, is not only my romantic lover but also my very best friend. We enjoy each other’s company, whether it is daily life in our home, winding down on the couch after work, exciting travel, or trying new restaurants and foodsThere is no one else whose companionship makes me as happy, fulfilled, and beautiful as the relationship with him. 

We both believe we were meant to be, but I do not think it would have been this smooth sailing had I not done the work on myself, invested in Anina’s advice and mustered up the courage to stand my ground and do Upshot-Dating®. While soulmates are made in heaven, I am convinced Anina has a special skill to help each woman avoid missing out on her Mr Right. It is a spiritual work of invaluable worth beyond words. 

Pauline from Paris xoxo