Here are the three worst lies you can tell yourself if you are a single lady, looking to find the right man. 

1st lie: “I am _______________”

I am too old, young, fat, ugly, strong, educated, independent, successful, damaged, good, hurt from the past,…

2nd lie: “Men are _______________”

Men are superficial, scared of strong women, not interested in commitment, only want one thing, and can not be trusted. 

3rd lie: “Love is _______________”

Love is not real, not for me, hard to find, difficult to keep, does not last, will only hurt, scares me a lot, …

All of the above are wrong. These are lies! Do not believe this!

These thoughts seem real to you while you have them because your feelings around them are strong. 

But intensity does not equal reality! 

This is a very important concept to grasp. 

For example, just because you are strongly attracted to him, fell head over heels, because he is very charming. Doesn’t mean that he loves you back, or is the right man for you. 

The same is true here. Just because the pain is raw does not mean it is the ultimate truth, though, and it applies to every man, love in general, and you. 

Continuing to buy into these lies will get in the way of finding love and the right man and feeling happy.  

The way out is here: How to overcome a limiting belief. 

Mindset is one of the most important pillars when finding the right man for you. 

The best way to start mindset work is here, as shown in my main article: How to be the Queen of your Mind. 

Anina