Being passive-aggressive is often falsely associated with being feminine, it is how women are, because they are less direct…
I disagree! I think being passive-aggressive is a gender neutral, in my opinion, very annoying trait.
Read here: How to deal with a passive-aggressive man? The Modern Queen’s response.
Passive-aggressive behaviour is a sign of disempowerment.
It makes sense to me that when women were economically dependent on getting along with men, and had to live with other women they disliked, passive-aggressive behaviour was a way to manage because being direct was not safe.
Lucky for us, things have changed.
Most women I know are high-earning, very educated, and independent, and this trend will continue.
So why hold on to this useless emotional baggage?
Let us evolve instead!
As modern women, Modern Queens, we don’t need to resort to such nonsense; we are not passive-aggressive.
Reasons why you can stop being passive are:
- You are a modern, strong woman who can do better than that.
- You will attract men who are your mirror, so if you do not want a passive-aggressive man and relationship dynamic, the best way to avoid it is to commit to not being passive-aggressive yourself.
- It is not attractive and keeps the right people, happy people who do not sabotage themselves away.
- If you really think about who you want to be, a Modern Queen. There is no reason at all to be this way.
It is a very freeing decision not to be passive-aggressive.
>>> Just walk away from passive-aggressive people. It is what I do.
I never had female friends who were passive-aggressive. It just doesn’t work for me.
If you feel you tend to be passive-aggressive, start by journaling and ask yourself:
- Where do you need to face your frustration?
- What you need so you feel worthy of expressing your feelings, desires and wishes?
Love you,
Anina