Upshot-Dating® is how I met and married my husband within nine months. Our story has taken us all across the globe, from our first date in Singapore to a proposal in the Middle East and a wedding on a boat from France to Ireland. 

I was the first to test-run what is now my Signature System, and the first success in a line of many. Upshot-Dating® has since been replicated by my clients worldwide. My clients meet and marry men, fast and heartbreak-free.

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-> Upshot-Dating® is a collection of the best dating practices from around the world. 

Based on my life experience, multicultural background, and academic and formal training, Upshot-Dating® is a Fusion of East and West, scientific and spiritual, modern and traditional. I have kept the best of both worlds and tossed out what does not work in a woman’s favour. 

Upshot-Dating® is the most effective and evolved way to date for any woman.

It takes into account everything modern science knows about women and love, but does not leave you lost or confused about what it means to be a woman and feel good and enjoy romance.  

Upshot-Dating® is the most self-valuing way a modern woman can date.

My clients draw healthy boundaries around their hearts, bodies, time and energy, as women who value themselves should. 

Upshot-Dating® is self-determined.

My clients are the only ones in charge of their decisions regarding whom they marry and at what terms. A fundamental pillar of my consulting system is to train my clients to make conscious, informed, and self-determined choices. 

Upshot-Dating® is outcome-oriented dating.

As the name implies, Upshot-Dating® starts with defining your dating goal. 

For example, dating to get married or be in a committed lifelong partnership and then reverse-engineering the steps you need to take to get there. 

Reverse engineering means: What do I need to do, stop doing, learn, and change/update regarding my mindset and level of self-love to achieve this goal?

Before my clients even set foot in the dating world, they have already defined the end result, their upshot. While dating, we make sure that my clients stay on track. 

Upshot-Dating® is better than conventional dating: 

Seeing what happens, prioritising wanting a specific man over the relationship of your dreams.

Conventional dating can cost you precious (maybe even childbearing) years of your life. 

I won’t even begin to mention what conventional dating does to your heart and self-value as a woman. 

Part of Upshot-Dating® also means not to allow any man to test-wife* you. 

(Test-wifing* is a word I made up and, as the pun intends, describes a situation where you act as a wife before a man has officially gone all the way for you. I created my consulting service so we can change this together and get you the romantic relationship that you desire and deserve.) 

Upshot-Dating® can mean dating more than one man at the same time.

Which is completely harmless as it does not imply s**(unless you want to). Dating several men without sleeping with them is the traditional, time-saving way to see who is a fit for life.  

Upshot-Dating® is compatible with Feminism.

As it is highly self-determined, all the while understanding that a romantic relationship works differently from friendships, family or work relationships. 

Upshot-Dating® values your heart.

And that way helps you avoid committing to the wrong man. The wrong man is a man who is not (for whatever reason) able/ready to give you the relationship you have defined as your upshot. 

Upshot-Dating® saves time.

This is not only respectful of your time and emotional investment, but also of a man’s. Dating this way also effortlessly weeds out men who are not on the same page as you. 

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By combining the best of dating from East and West, modern and traditional, scientific and spiritual,  Upshot-Dating® is the most self-determined, evolved, and effective way for any woman to date. 

Upshot-Dating® is highly adaptable.

Because Upshot-Dating® can be customised easily to a woman’s individual situation, it works well for any woman who wants to find love. 

Upshot-Dating® start with you as the woman.

My clients are women from all walks of life and all age groups. What they have in common is that they value themselves enough to date in an empowered way and get the love life of their dreams. 

This is to your success in love because you are worth it. 

Anina Green ~ Soulmate Katalyst