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What is Upshot-Dating®, the Modern Queen’s Way to Date

What is Upshot-Dating®, the Modern Queen’s Way to Date

“Nothing is perfect—except Upshot-Dating®.” Move beyond conventional “linear” dating and the “Girlfriend Trap.” Learn how Anina Green uses a “Triple Credential” approach—Clinical Psychology, real-life mastery, and replicated results—to help intelligent women find the right man through a strategic, goal-oriented fusion of East and West.

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Sep 3, 2026 | Mindset, Upshot Dating®

What are the Bronze (*free), Silver, and Gold Levels?

From your current situation (A) to your Upshot (B)—the individual goal you have defined for your romantic life—my consul...
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Aug 27, 2026 | Mindset, Upshot Dating®

What You Need to Know About Your Attachment Style When Dating to Find the Right Man

Here are the three things that come to my mind instantly when a client brings up attachment styles: Muffins – Mind Maps ...
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Aug 20, 2026 | Feminine Energy

Why I Kissed Coffee Goodbye – And How It Helps You Find the Right Man

In this article, I am sharing my own story of why and how I stopped drinking coffee, and how drinking less coffee could ...
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Aug 13, 2026 | Mindset

Why I Love Selling

Since I can remember, I have always been what you consider “good at sales.” Each time I closed a sale, whether big or sm...
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Clinical Psychologist and Physicist Anina Green with Dr Judy, discussing dating success and feminine energy for female scientists.
May 1, 2026 | Success Stories

Dating for Scientists: Dr Judy Answers 21 Questions

"I resisted feminine energy because I thought it meant dumbing myself down." Discover how Dr Judy used the logical, scie...
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Clinical Psychologist Anina Green with Pauline, a licensed therapist and Upshot-Dating® success story, celebrating her marriage and recovery from burnout.
May 1, 2026 | Success Stories

How Pauline, a Licensed Therapist, Healed Her Burnout and Found Her Husband at 38 through Upshot-Dating®

"I felt broken before becoming her client." Pauline, a Paris-based therapist, reveals how she healed from professional e...
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Sep 3, 2026 | Mindset, Upshot Dating®

What are the Bronze (*free), Silver, and Gold Levels?

From your current situation (A) to your Upshot (B)—the individual goal you have defined for your romantic life—my consul...
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Aug 27, 2026 | Mindset, Upshot Dating®

What You Need to Know About Your Attachment Style When Dating to Find the Right Man

Here are the three things that come to my mind instantly when a client brings up attachment styles: Muffins – Mind Maps ...
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Clinical Psychologist Anina Green explaining the strategic use of dating multiple men versus focusing on one partner within the Upshot-Dating® system.
May 1, 2026 | Upshot Dating®

Should I Date Other Men? When Dating Multiple Men Is (and Isn’t) the Right Choice

Dating multiple men can be a time-efficient way to find your soulmate, but it isn't always the answer. Learn why single ...
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Clinical Psychologist Anina Green explaining the Girlfriend Trap and how women can transition from girlfriend to wife using Upshot-Dating®.
May 1, 2026 | Upshot Dating®

The Girlfriend Trap: 3 Signs You Are in It and 4 Strategic Steps to Get Out

Being a "girlfriend" is a trap if it isn't your final destination. Learn how to stop proving your worth to an undecided ...
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Clinical Psychologist Anina Green explaining why the Upshot-Dating® method of dating multiple men simultaneously is a time-efficient and ethical strategy for women.
May 1, 2026 | Upshot Dating®

Why Upshot-Dating® Is Not Cheating: How the Modern Queen Dates Multiple Men

Dating multiple suitors isn't promiscuity—it's a heartbreak-proof strategy. Discover why staying physically exclusive to...
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Clinical Psychologist Anina Green showcasing five diverse success stories of women who used the Upshot-Dating® system to find love.
May 1, 2026 | Success Stories, Upshot Dating®

5 Very Different Women Review Upshot-Dating®: Proof of a Replicable System

Whether you are a scientist, a single mother, or a high-level executive, the Upshot-Dating® system is designed to be rep...
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Clinical Psychologist Anina Green providing a professional perspective on handling ghosting and maintaining self-worth in modern dating.
May 1, 2026 | Online Dating

Why Men Ghost and How to Handle It: The Modern Queen’s Response

Is he a ghost or just not the right man? Reclaim your power and learn why "checking in" is a mistake. Discover the Upsho...
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Anina Green, founder of Upshot-Dating®, providing guidance on setting boundaries and responding to inappropriate texts in early dating.
May 1, 2026 | Online Dating

How to Respond to Inappropriate Texts in Early Dating. Masha’s Question

Hours before a date, Masha received vulgar messages that left her disgusted. Learn why you should never settle for "men ...
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Clinical Psychologist and Physicist Anina Green with Dr Judy, discussing dating success and feminine energy for female scientists.
May 1, 2026 | Success Stories

Dating for Scientists: Dr Judy Answers 21 Questions

"I resisted feminine energy because I thought it meant dumbing myself down." Discover how Dr Judy used the logical, scie...
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Clinical Psychologist Anina Green with Pauline, a licensed therapist and Upshot-Dating® success story, celebrating her marriage and recovery from burnout.
May 1, 2026 | Success Stories

How Pauline, a Licensed Therapist, Healed Her Burnout and Found Her Husband at 38 through Upshot-Dating®

"I felt broken before becoming her client." Pauline, a Paris-based therapist, reveals how she healed from professional e...
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Clinical Psychologist Anina Green discussing how to overcome self-sabotage and fear of commitment after a wedding proposal.
May 1, 2026 | Success Stories

How She Almost Gave Back the Ring: Overcoming Self-Sabotage and a Proposal in Paris

He proposed at the Eiffel Tower, but she locked herself in the bathroom and cried. Discover how past pain can hijack you...
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Clinical Psychologist Anina Green's success stories of educated women getting engaged through her structured Upshot-Dating® email course.
May 1, 2026 | Success Stories

How My Email List Helped These Educated Women Get Engaged: 2 Success Stories

Are you overstimulated by dating advice but seeing zero results? Discover how a researcher and a lawyer used a structure...
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Clinical Psychologist Anina Green providing dating advice on handling a marriage impasse and reaching your relationship goals.
May 1, 2026 | Mindset, Success Stories

The Marriage Impasse: What to Do When He Doesn’t Believe in “I Do”

Agneshka loved him, but he didn't believe in "I do." Discover how prioritizing her relationship goal over her current at...
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Clinical Psychologist Anina Green sharing the success story of Natalia, who transitioned from an Ice Queen to a happily married Modern Queen.
May 1, 2026 | Success Stories

From Queen of Ice to Queen of Joy: Natalia’s Modern Queen Journey

Natalia was gorgeous, successful, and terrified of intimacy. Discover how she melted her "diamond-hard" exterior, moved ...
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Sep 3, 2026 | Mindset, Upshot Dating®

What are the Bronze (*free), Silver, and Gold Levels?

From your current situation (A) to your Upshot (B)—the individual goal you have defined for your romantic life—my consul...
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Aug 27, 2026 | Mindset, Upshot Dating®

What You Need to Know About Your Attachment Style When Dating to Find the Right Man

Here are the three things that come to my mind instantly when a client brings up attachment styles: Muffins – Mind Maps ...
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Aug 13, 2026 | Mindset

Why I Love Selling

Since I can remember, I have always been what you consider “good at sales.” Each time I closed a sale, whether big or sm...
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Clinical Psychologist Anina Green’s guide to the 3 types of men and how to identify the stable, empowered masculine partner.
May 1, 2026 | Mindset

The 3 Types of Men: A Guide to Ending Dating Drama

Is he a Prince, a Superstar, or a Modern Queen's match? Understanding these three archetypes is the most practical tool ...
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Anina Green, founder of Upshot-Dating®, outlining self-sabotaging dating habits and how to overcome them to find the right man.
May 1, 2026 | Mindset

27 Ways to Make Sure You Will Never Find the Right Man

Take a humorous yet honest look at the habits that block your romantic success. From "Warrior-Woman-Mode™" to the "Girlf...
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Clinical Psychologist Anina Green’s 4-step guide to successful journaling for clarity, self-empowerment, and attractiveness.
May 1, 2026 | Mindset

How to Journal Successfully: 4 Steps to Clarity and Attractiveness.

Are you feeling as light and happy as you should? Discover why journaling is a lucrative investment in your attractivene...
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Aug 20, 2026 | Feminine Energy

Why I Kissed Coffee Goodbye – And How It Helps You Find the Right Man

In this article, I am sharing my own story of why and how I stopped drinking coffee, and how drinking less coffee could ...
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Clinical Psychologist Anina Green’s guide to the 8 traits of a feminine woman on a date for successful modern women.
May 1, 2026 | Feminine Energy

8 Traits of a Feminine Woman on a Date: The Modern Queen’s Way to Date

Are you a successful woman wondering why dating feels like a second job? Move from exhaustion to effortlessness with the...
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Clinical Psychologist Anina Green teaching feminine energy shifts to help busy modern women attract men.
May 1, 2026 | Feminine Energy

How to Attract More Men Instantly: 3 Feminine Energy Secrets for the Busy Modern Queen

Is your "busyness" a shield? Learn how one high-profile lawyer went from unnoticed to effortlessly approached using thes...
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Clinical Psychologist Anina Green discussing beauty, self-care, and the 9 traits that attract the right man.
May 1, 2026 | Feminine Energy

9 Things Being a Model Taught Me About Finding the Right Man

What a top-tier stylist taught me about beauty that models often missed. Discover why perfection is unnecessary and how ...
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Clinical Psychologist Anina Green explaining the transition from Warrior-Woman-Mode™ to the Modern Queen.
May 1, 2026 | Feminine Energy, Mindset

Warrior-Woman-Mode™: Why Your Strength is Keeping Love at Bay

Explore the psychological costs of over-functioning and how to lower your shield to let the right man in without losing ...
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The Queen of Joy concept by Soulmate Katalyst: Cultivating internal Simcha to improve dating outcomes.
May 1, 2026 | Feminine Energy, Mindset

The Queen of Joy – and Why She Matters

Joy is not a fleeting emotion; it is a power base. Learn three practical ways to make pleasure and gratitude a routine h...
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